Now, someone may want to think about these words, after all it was written by sum1 kinda a lil bit smart(r) now?????????????? U`ll Neva Know, unless........ Any1 can dress up or down, but the 1 that looks Gr8 anytime makes a big difference. That spark will hit ya better everytime. Anything else will just fall into place, that is if both r in sync. Body language says a bunch, b4 any words are exchanged. Either you make it happen if you want to, or just walk away..no regrets, no cussin. Bad feelings should never be an issue at all, as well as any wtf attitude. It happened. No words at all is better than wishin u hadn`t said something you may wish you hadn`t. True love is real, not surreal. Every1 defines it differently. It`s all in how either of the participating parties interpret what they want a/o desire.Communication plain & simple. True Friends stay in sync. Risque there`s always a little of risk (choose a better word if ya wanna) involved in getting to know sum1 better, or even after ya do. What will other ppl say, scru em, not out to please any1 else. That lil risk no matter when or where keeps more than just the sparks alive, it makes ya want to be bad. Hell any boring person is just that; either out of touch with The Real World, blind, or has tunnel vision. A no-go from go-from go-street way b4 that initial Hey how ya doin, nice to meet U after all Humans are meant to have fun & be happy. Doesn`t have 2 b a battle, supposed to be a lil challenge sure, no matter who thinks they (may) have won.Compromise. b smart w/o feeling that u`ve given in to any submission. Like was std, if 2 ppl r smart enough from go-street, aka can converse, & even ? relate to certain likes/dislikes. If that ember doesn`t even exist from the initial rendevouz, then Hey so be it. U`ll neva know until sum1 makes that initial move, whether verbal or otherwise! Everything has a starting point. How you continue on is ^ to both parties. Listen & Just be yourself, how much simpler can that be? As sum1 also often has std, Comprehension is a must, and most def inline with that is Trust. Whether 1 or the other is married or not!Commmunication, Listening, Understanding, Patience, Acceptance, Trust, Compromise, Confidence. Quite sure sum1 has addressed that in the past numerous times. i.e.....personal/private forums. That`s history. Neva b above it to say You`re Sorry! Let it be known, & work it out. Not to the extreme that you cannot change & adjust comfortably though. Sure this is internet, and some may have either, let`s say....become content (happy) with a person, (or maybe tolerable) or just totally kissed off the possibilty. Can say/typing in this case though, if it hadn`t been for a certain person, something could have evolved very nice. 1 instance unknowingly, the other a definite yes, Yet, won`t mention any names, a few scrued that positive 1 ^ (still a bit po`d). On the flipside, someone let me know that, Hey ne ne ne ne ne, maybe you should be a tad wiser, & don`t go there. A huge TY to that person. Howeva, neva discount any possibilty with someone you are interested in. If ya don`t ask & step fwd, U`ll Neva Know.Those who are lookin as is often stated, sum may be desperate, or on a rebound, (kinda bad move), while those that aren`t afraid to @ least surface the topic are much smarter & may know someday! Ya don`t have to be married to enjoy each others company. If it`s meant to be, then let it happen naturally, & not force fed. Even a close friendship is allowable.
True friends speak with each other, not @ each other. Just a nice polite "I`d like to talk with you" is not a sin!
Internet is 1 thing, a nice phonechat w/o any guilt trip is ok, keep it simple. & honest. If anything else evolves, both are smart enough 2 either say Ok, or "I Don`t Think So"
