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MissBtrayed

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So how do you handle a situation where your hubby has started his raging - first bad words and really bad threats and then spits in your face?
 
Tilted

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It's hard to give someone specific advice without knowing their specific situation - but generally speaking, I'd say bad threats = bad situation. And I can't imagine that it's a relationship worth trying to save, if he could spit in your face.

He would seem to have no respect whatsoever for you, and if he hadn't learned to respect you by the time you got married, I wouldn't expect that he ever will. That's probably not easy to hear or accept - but, you'll probably be better off if you do - and sooner rather than later.

So, specific advice? Hard to give any. General advice? It's probably time to get away from the relationship.
 
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sunflower said:
Call the cops.. He spit in your face.. While he's in jail pack your chit and leave...
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Mentioned that - he said go ahead that he will just cut himself and put blood all over and tell the cops I cut him - not idle threats -he has done crap like that before - once even whacked himself in the leg with a sledgehammer and told the cops I kicked him!
 
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MissBtrayed said:
Mentioned that - he said go ahead that he will just cut himself and put blood all over and tell the cops I cut him - not idle threats -he has done crap like that before - once even whacked himself in the leg with a sledgehammer and told the cops I kicked him!
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You are still with him WHY? :shrug:
 
jetmonkey

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MissBtrayed said:
Mentioned that - he said go ahead that he will just cut himself and put blood all over and tell the cops I cut him - not idle threats -he has done crap like that before - once even whacked himself in the leg with a sledgehammer and told the cops I kicked him!
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You should back over yourself with the car and tell the cops he did it to you.
 
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MissBtrayed

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- sometimes it is far easier to duck and cover and protect yourself from stuff you can see coming most of the time than to imagine watching the rear view mirror your entire life - is probably one of the reasons
 
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Tigerlily

Luvin Life !!!
MissBtrayed said:
- sometimes it is far easier to duck and cover and protect yourself from stuff you can see coming most of the time than to imagine watching the rear view mirror your entire life - is probably one of the reasons
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I don't have time for your drama. If you want help or sincere advice, phone number's of places you can call to get things done let us know.

The only person that has the power to change your life is YOU!

I don't even know you but I can guess that you are more afraid of what you are going to lose that you put up with the shiat because of it.

I will not placate you or feed into your deal if you are truly not ready for a real change. I don't mean to be harsh but it's your choice. Do you want to stay and exist or do you want to live your life? What are your hopes and dreams?

http://forums.somd.com/dating-marriage/178312-married-couples-sleeping-apart.html#post3744030
 
Beta84

Beta84

They're out to get us
MissBtrayed said:
- sometimes it is far easier to duck and cover and protect yourself from stuff you can see coming most of the time than to imagine watching the rear view mirror your entire life - is probably one of the reasons
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why do you come around asking for help and suggestions, just to make excuses and justify things that are clearly absurd? When you're ready for actual help, come on back. Until then, why waste our time?
 
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Tigerlily said:
I don't have time for your drama. If you want help or sincere advice, phone number's of places you can call to get things done let us know.

The only person that has the power to change your life is YOU!

I don't even know you but I can guess that you are more afraid of what you are going to lose that you put up with the shiat because of it.

I will not placate you or feed into your deal if you are truly not ready for a real change. I don't mean to be harsh but it's your choice. Do you want to stay and exist or do you want to live your life? What are your hopes and dreams?

http://forums.somd.com/dating-marriage/178312-married-couples-sleeping-apart.html#post3744030
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Then don't read it and don't spend the time-

I am not afraid of what I would "lose" - everything I own materially I have bought myself with my own 6 figure income.

I don't expect people to understand anything and the forums are just as for me as they are for you. (I bet when I look I will see that you have probably posted in the thousands?)

for the non-mean people

We have 4 children between us, and I have left before - just about 3 years ago. Then he "convinced" me - the fool I am - that he wasn't unfaithful, wouldn't be abusive, went to counseling, etc - I tried - like a fool. We even built a new house together.

Now, he is back in his "comfort zone" if you will thinking that being an absolute mean SOB is the way to get people to love you - I have gone through feeling sorry for him, I really think he has a disorder (yes, they really do exist) wanting to get help for him, etc - but I don't believe that he can be helped
 
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MissBtrayed

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Beta84 said:
why do you come around asking for help and suggestions, just to make excuses and justify things that are clearly absurd? When you're ready for actual help, come on back. Until then, why waste our time?
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Anyone ever seen the move Gaslight ??
very tame in comparison
 
jetmonkey

jetmonkey

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MissBtrayed said:
Then don't read it and don't spend the time-

I am not afraid of what I would "lose" - everything I own materially I have bought myself with my own 6 figure income.

I don't expect people to understand anything and the forums are just as for me as they are for you. (I bet when I look I will see that you have probably posted in the thousands?)

for the non-mean people

We have 4 children between us, and I have left before - just about 3 years ago. Then he "convinced" me - the fool I am - that he wasn't unfaithful, wouldn't be abusive, went to counseling, etc - I tried - like a fool. We even built a new house together.

Now, he is back in his "comfort zone" if you will thinking that being an absolute mean SOB is the way to get people to love you - I have gone through feeling sorry for him, I really think he has a disorder (yes, they really do exist) wanting to get help for him, etc - but I don't believe that he can be helped
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Wow, your penis must be GIGANTIC.
 
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