Here's the thing:
Supposedly couples are supposed to "relax" and "be themselves" after awhile. Well, the woman who doesn't fart in front of people and doesn't like my guy to see me all which way or sitting on the toilet - that IS myself. That's not something I do to catch him, that's just what I do. Fortunately Monello is on board with that because it's him as well.
He also believes that it benefits him more to keep me in the zone than to "win" an argument. Therefore we don't argue, and we rarely disagree. It's not that he "caves in", it's that whatever we'd argue about isn't important to him. I say, "" and he replies, "Baby, if that's what you want then we'll do it ." Many times we end up doing what he wanted to do just because he was willing to give me my way, so I was willing to go, "You know what? Let's go ahead and do what you wanted." And he scores an effortless double win.
So, you know, it just depends on what you want out of your relationship and what's important to you. And choosing the person who's right for you in the first place to reduce conflict.
Supposedly couples are supposed to "relax" and "be themselves" after awhile. Well, the woman who doesn't fart in front of people and doesn't like my guy to see me all which way or sitting on the toilet - that IS myself. That's not something I do to catch him, that's just what I do. Fortunately Monello is on board with that because it's him as well.
He also believes that it benefits him more to keep me in the zone than to "win" an argument. Therefore we don't argue, and we rarely disagree. It's not that he "caves in", it's that whatever we'd argue about isn't important to him. I say, "" and he replies, "Baby, if that's what you want then we'll do it ." Many times we end up doing what he wanted to do just because he was willing to give me my way, so I was willing to go, "You know what? Let's go ahead and do what you wanted." And he scores an effortless double win.
So, you know, it just depends on what you want out of your relationship and what's important to you. And choosing the person who's right for you in the first place to reduce conflict.