Ladies: Sex Does Not = A Relationship

Pete

Pete

Repete
somd whisper said:
:yeahthat:

The woman has just as much responsibility in birth control as well. So men if you ask her if she is on the pill and she lies to you and gets pregnant for the sole purpose of trapping you, then what?

You should consider to always using protection unless you are in a committed relationship and even then if you do not want children.
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I wish it weren't true but women have a greater responsibility. They are the ones who will carry the child, they are the ones who will feed the child, they are the ones who will raise the child, they are the ones who will have to clothe the child, they are the ones who will have to seek out assistance. It is too easy for men to skip, avoid, disappear, shirk, and otherwise not support the kids. Ask JPC, he made it a decades long process.

So the guy gets hounded and eventually jailed for not supporting the kid, the kid doesn't stop eating, growing and consuming.
 
CandyRain

CandyRain

New Member
Pete said:
I wish it weren't true but women have a greater responsibility. They are the ones who will carry the child, they are the ones who will feed the child, they are the ones who will raise the child, they are the ones who will have to clothe the child, they are the ones who will have to seek out assistance. It is too easy for men to skip, avoid, disappear, shirk, and otherwise not support the kids. Ask JPC, he made it a decades long process.

So the guy gets hounded and eventually jailed for not supporting the kid, the kid doesn't stop eating, growing and consuming.
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Who are you and what did you do with Pete. I simply can't imagine he'd say this. :confused:
 
LexiGirl75

LexiGirl75

100% Goapele Head!
I love men like this!!! It doesn't matter how it's said/written if you understand it. One might not be surprised about the amount of ladies who need (to be reminded) this message. How many men are going to actually keep it that real with us?

I have two platonic male friends and when I go through my stuff with relationships I talk their ears off. I usually end up feeling stronger about my situation after having "the talk" with them. Because sometimes a man's opinion is what you need if they are the type who have played the game if not made some of the rules.

It's not just young girls 18-25y/o who find themselves in this situations. Single mothers, women who are over 30 w/o kids and never married, women who don't have a male figure in their lives to teach them about men and many others. Desperation is a mofo.

I hear conflicting things from other men too, telling me that the punani is powerful but they are saying holding on to it is where the power lies. I feel like if you have to play the "wait" game to see if a man is going to be about you then you really don't need him because your sex should not be your bargaining tool.

I believe that you should have sex because you want just that,sex. There shouldn't be any other reason as to why you are doing the act except that you both want it. Seperating sex from everything emotional is harder for women to do than men but it is sometimes so very imperative.

I totally agree that a woman shouldn't try to preggo-trap a man and at the same time men should ensure that he is untrappable or tell a b!tch to get the eff out his bed or that he "bout to roll". Who has time for playing around with bringing a baby into this world over some good sex? That's the real issue as to why anyone gets sprung. Sex!!!

Invest in a vibrator if you can't enjoy sex with a man for what it is AND leave the other stuff out of it.

Oh who am I kidding that sh!t is hard to do. :bawl:
 
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bresamil

wandering aimlessly
Pete said:
I wish it weren't true but women have a greater responsibility. They are the ones who will carry the child, they are the ones who will feed the child, they are the ones who will raise the child, they are the ones who will have to clothe the child, they are the ones who will have to seek out assistance. It is too easy for men to skip, avoid, disappear, shirk, and otherwise not support the kids. Ask JPC, he made it a decades long process.

So the guy gets hounded and eventually jailed for not supporting the kid, the kid doesn't stop eating, growing and consuming.
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So true. Unless of course she latches onto a good man, like you, that will take care of all those things while she ducks child support. :shrug:
 
nachomama

nachomama

All Up In Your Grill
LexiGirl75 said:
I love men like this!!! It doesn't matter how it's said/written if you understand it. One might not be surprised about the amount of ladies who need (to be reminded) this message. How many men are going to actually keep it that real with us?

I totally agree with you on this, but there are tons of airheads out there that would read this article and say "Oh I have a friend who should read this", still not getting the fact that THEY are the ones who should be reading!
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Toxick

Toxick

Splat
Everyone should wear some kind of symbol for what they're doing.


If you're married, of course the wedding ring is an old tried and true symbol.

For everyone else I suggest a color coded bracelet or headband describing exactly what they're looking for:


Blue) Looking for fun, maybe more. Don't expect much.
Brown) Looking to get married - but I'm unable or unwilling to have children.
Red) I'm looking to get married and squeeze about a million puppies.
Orange) I only like you as a friend (should be the reverse side of blue).
Green) Like your mother, I'm just Looking for some cheap meaningless sex. Don't even tell me your name.
Purple) Not looking for sex or a relationship. Please leave me the F alone.
Gray) I'll snarf your weasel, but my pants stay ON.



If everyone could just agree to do this, life would be SO much easier.
 
lillymay

lillymay

New Member
Toxick said:
Everyone should wear some kind of symbol for what they're doing.


If you're married, of course the wedding ring is an old tried and true symbol.

For everyone else I suggest a color coded bracelet or headband describing exactly what they're looking for:


Blue) Looking for fun, maybe more. Don't expect much.
Brown) Looking to get married - but I'm unable or unwilling to have children.
Red) I'm looking to get married and squeeze about a million puppies.
Orange) I only like you as a friend (should be the reverse side of blue).
Green) Like your mother, I'm just Looking for some cheap meaningless sex. Don't even tell me your name.
Purple) Not looking for sex or a relationship. Please leave me the F alone.
Gray) I'll snarf your weasel, but my pants stay ON.



If everyone could just agree to do this, life would be SO much easier.
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Finally a man with ahellvua sense of humor. Now this is what I'm talking about. Men have weasels and women have beavers. Ever think of that. It's funny. I love the color coded idea. Let's implement it!
 
Toxick

Toxick

Splat
Toxick said:
Everyone should wear some kind of symbol for what they're doing.


If you're married, of course the wedding ring is an old tried and true symbol.

For everyone else I suggest a color coded bracelet or headband describing exactly what they're looking for:


Blue) Looking for fun, maybe more. Don't expect much.
Brown) Looking to get married - but I'm unable or unwilling to have children.
Red) I'm looking to get married and squeeze about a million puppies.
Orange) I only like you as a friend (should be the reverse side of blue).
Green) Like your mother, I'm just Looking for some cheap meaningless sex. Don't even tell me your name.
Purple) Not looking for sex or a relationship. Please leave me the F alone.
Gray) I'll snarf your weasel, but my pants stay ON.



If everyone could just agree to do this, life would be SO much easier.
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Oops.... Fergot one:

Rainbow) I'm looking for teh ghey
 
LexiGirl75

LexiGirl75

100% Goapele Head!
Toxick said:
Everyone should wear some kind of symbol for what they're doing.


If you're married, of course the wedding ring is an old tried and true symbol.

For everyone else I suggest a color coded bracelet or headband describing exactly what they're looking for:


Blue) Looking for fun, maybe more. Don't expect much.
Brown) Looking to get married - but I'm unable or unwilling to have children.
Red) I'm looking to get married and squeeze about a million puppies.
Orange) I only like you as a friend (should be the reverse side of blue).
Green) Like your mother, I'm just Looking for some cheap meaningless sex. Don't even tell me your name.
Purple) Not looking for sex or a relationship. Please leave me the F alone.
Gray) I'll snarf your weasel, but my pants stay ON.



If everyone could just agree to do this, life would be SO much easier.
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What about if they are desperate and have low self-esteem. What should they wear?
 
Pete

Pete

Repete
bresamil said:
So true. Unless of course she latches onto a good man, like you, that will take care of all those things while she ducks child support. :shrug:
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It is not easy being me.
 
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