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I have two girls, one 7 years old (Ebony) and the other 6 (Ashlynn). The younger one is the much more dominant personality, as she has been from about the week after I brought her home. Ashlynn will push Ebony away from the food bowl if Ebony is eating and generally boss Ebony around. Most of the time, they avoid each other.
The one area where Ashlynn is most assertive - almost aggressive - is the litter box. I did a quick google and saw that one cat blocking the other from the litter box is a common problem, but that is not so in our case.
Ashlynn will let Ebony use it okay, but once she comes out, Ashlynn will pounce on her. She will sit behind a box or behind the sofa and jump on Ebony or chase after her.
I have noticed that, when she exits the box, Ebony is always paranoid if/when Ashlynn will jump. If I see it coming, I will distract Ashlynn or get in her way because I don't want Ebony to be bullied. Yet I know I can't be there every time.
Anyone else have this issue? Is this dynamic something that can be changed? Am I right to step in or should I let them smack it out?
The one area where Ashlynn is most assertive - almost aggressive - is the litter box. I did a quick google and saw that one cat blocking the other from the litter box is a common problem, but that is not so in our case.
Ashlynn will let Ebony use it okay, but once she comes out, Ashlynn will pounce on her. She will sit behind a box or behind the sofa and jump on Ebony or chase after her.
I have noticed that, when she exits the box, Ebony is always paranoid if/when Ashlynn will jump. If I see it coming, I will distract Ashlynn or get in her way because I don't want Ebony to be bullied. Yet I know I can't be there every time.
Anyone else have this issue? Is this dynamic something that can be changed? Am I right to step in or should I let them smack it out?