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atheos

atheos

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Well this is awkward...

Posted March 12, 2010


Lydia Steenrod of Lexington Park, daughter of Randall and Vicki Steenrod, and Steve VanDevander of Washington, D.C., son of Kathy Conner, will marry in the spring of 2012.

He proposed on her birthday when he took her to Liberty Island in New York City.
When they met, it was love at first sight, and they plan to see the Great Barrier Reef in Australia during their honeymoon. The groom-to-be is the owner of a security and private investigation company serving Maryland, Virginia and Washington, D.C. The bride-to-be is a contract oversight manager for the U.S. Navy.

Couple plans for 2012
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Then posted February 22, 2011:

Former St. Mary's deputy held on assault charge
In a separate matter, 41-year-old Steven M. Vandevander of California, a former St. Mary's sheriff's deputy, remained jailed without bond after a court hearing Tuesday on a charge of committing a first-degree assault on his fiancee.

Sheriff's deputies responded to a domestic disturbance call on Monday at Vandevander's home and were talking with him, court papers state, when Lydia Ann Steenrod approached and handed the officers a loaded shotgun.
Steenrod told police that during a dispute on Dec. 8, Vandevander "placed the muzzle of the firearm against the victim's head and stated, ‘I'll blow you away,'" sheriff's deputy Thomas D. Seyfried wrote in a statement of probable cause.

Vandevander's former wife obtained a protective order last fall that in part bars him from possessing any firearms until next month, court papers state, but on Monday, "the defendant was in possession of a loaded 12-gauge shotgun, a revolver and numerous shotgun shells."
In addition to the assault charge, Vandevander was charged Monday with violating the protective order.

Suspects face assault and weapons charges
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atheos

atheos

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Didn't even make it a year after there engagement announcement. Crazy the things you can find while browsing through the news from St. Mary's County.
 
atheos

atheos

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Vince said:
And as soon as he's released from jail, she'll get back together with him and marry him.
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Did a search on this guy, and he was released from the Sheriff's office for excessive force on some dude at the Perkins (back when it existed). Sounds like a real stand up guy :sarcasm:
 
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BET

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Lydia, dump his ass. You’re a bright, beautiful, sweet girl who can get way better than him. You are better off alone than with that overbearing, paranoid, control freak. If he’s this nuts now, what’s he going to be like after your married?
 
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EmptyTimCup

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and He should NOT be able to retain his service weapon, or any other firearm




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oh that's right the politicians wrote in a loophole for Po Po
 
10ozCurls

10ozCurls

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sockgirl77 said:
Ex-Cop Pleads Guilty To Assaulting Girlfriend - Southern Maryland News, Charles County, Calvert County and St. Mary's County News
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Vandevander pointed a loaded shotgun at his girlfriend and threatened to kill her.
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The girlfriend in a statement to the court said she did not believe Vandevander meant to harm her and only reported the incident so he could get some help.
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Are you kidding me? He said he was going to KILL her for gawd sake but she thought he just had a bad day and didn't mean it. :doh:
 
Baja28

Baja28

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She's a hottie! He's a douche.

She should visit casa baja. I'd never point a gun at her. Now if she didn't behave and does what she's told, a backhand may be required but never a loaded weapon. That guy is a pussy.
 
10ozCurls

10ozCurls

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Baja28 said:
She's a hottie! He's a douche.

She should visit casa baja. I'd never point a gun at her. Now if she didn't behave and does what she's told, a backhand may be required but never a loaded weapon. That guy is a pussy.
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Yup, pretty much! I have come home in a bad mood and complained that we were having Taco's again or something and just retreated to my man cave. Never once have I thought let me go grab my illegal guns out of the closest and point one at her head and mention the words that I was going to "blow her away." What a douche.
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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Baja28 said:
She's a hottie!
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What's so hot about her, the fact that she likes to get her ass kicked?

I don't feel sorry for these women who keep going back and going back. I wish their beloved would just kill them and get it over with. Ideally before they start birthing bebes who will grow up to be beaters and beatees because they had a bad example at home.
 
sockgirl77

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vraiblonde said:
What's so hot about her, the fact that she likes to get her ass kicked?

I don't feel sorry for these women who keep going back and going back. I wish their beloved would just kill them and get it over with. Ideally before they start birthing bebes who will grow up to be beaters and beatees because they had a bad example at home.
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That means that she's submissive and I'd assume that Mikey likes that trait in a woman. :lmao:
 
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vraiblonde said:
What's so hot about her, the fact that she likes to get her ass kicked?

I don't feel sorry for these women who keep going back and going back. I wish their beloved would just kill them and get it over with. Ideally before they start birthing bebes who will grow up to be beaters and beatees because they had a bad example at home.
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Agreed. People only get what they tolerate. It's hard to feel sorry for someone who never learns and repeats the same stupidity over and over. If my hubby laid a hand on me once, he'd get hit back and divorced. I'm not saying people deserve to be abused but if you keep tolerating it, it'll keep happening. And idiots who bring kids into that drama should be shot.
 
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