Married couples sleeping apart

[itsbob]

(guess I forgot the )

What clued you into "freak" .. the red hair and long legs?

Just never know.. some people on here aren't too bright.. think Wrestling is real, and think NASCAR is entertainment..

Can't be too carefull..


And YES!!

 

[angelbaby]

Where did your parents get their freak on??

Dining room table??

Or did the get their freak on, then retire to their own rooms??

They started sleeping in seperate beds when I was a teenager. I am assuming they did the deed when my sister and I were out somewhere. Thanks Bob for making me think of that!

 

[vraiblonde]

I bet she was a FREAK in the sheets too..

Um, YUCK. Lucy is probably the least sexy person ever.

WAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!! But RIIIIIICCCCCKKKKKKEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!



I'd have spousal abused her if I were Ricky.

 

[bcp]

Lucy and Ricky always had seperate beds :shrug: ...and still managed to have Little Ricky!

maybe Ricky was,,, um,,,, large?

 

[MissBtrayed]

He really doesn't have a choice, you know. I'd never put up with that. Period.

We sleep in the same bed although my husbands snoring drives me crazy. I just poke a fingernail somewhere on his body and he turns over...problem solved for a while.

?? um - yes, he has a choice - but let's just say the route he takes is "less than pleasant" and leave it at that - most would just not understand, period.

 

[Tigerlily]

?? um - yes, he has a choice - but let's just say the route he takes is "less than pleasant" and leave it at that - most would just not understand, period.

If he has dishonored you, your marriage and your family, why would you allow him to stay? You are worth way more than that than to just suck it up and settle.

 

[meangirl]

?? um - yes, he has a choice - but let's just say the route he takes is "less than pleasant" and leave it at that - most would just not understand, period.

He only has a choice if you let him. :shrug:

I don't understand what you are saying there... how can he be "less than pleasant" and you still be there... I mean, WHY???

 

[Wenchy]

He only has a choice if you let him. :shrug:

I don't understand what you are saying there... how can he be "less than pleasant" and you still be there... I mean, WHY???

Poop chute? :shrug:

 

[RareBreed]

My husband and I sleep together and seperately. I go to bed at 8pm during the week because I have to get up early for work. He stays in the living room and watches TV, gets on the computer etc until about midnight when he falls asleep on the couch doing the crossword puzzle. He'll then come to bed. If he starts snoring, I'll get my pillow and move to the couch to sleep. My kids normally expect to see me on the couch in the mornings on week-ends. I think they'd worry if I actually was still in my bed with their Dad.

Like most on here, I don't see it as a problem if it's not a problem to the couple. Granted, my husband doesn't like the fact that I sneak off when he starts snoring but I am such a light sleeper that any noise is like a siren going off inches from my ears.

 

[Beelzebaby666]

I don't have a Tv in my room because that's not what the bedroom is for, IMO. There's a level of intimacy and comfort that comes from sharing that space with someone. When you have kids in the house, it's nice to have that space just for the two of you to talk, argue, or make up.

I can't imagine anything but gas preventing me from wanting to sleep next to my old man, and even that is something I could learn to live with.

I also haven't lived with a man in a long time

 

[kvj21075]

i dont think there is anything wrong with sleeping apart, i dont think it means a couple loves eachother anyless or more. If you get better sleep in seperate beds, why not? 4d snores very LOUD, but ti doesnt bother me , and its actually harder to sleep w/o his snoring lol. we started sharing beds in Dec, and other then him leaving for 11 days to visit his family, we havent slept apart since i dont think he has a choice when it comes to not sleeping with me now D

 

[Cowgirl]

We don't have a very big bed (full) and D likes to lay diagonally. Sometimes he'll fall asleep on the couch watching TV, and it's kinda nice to have the bed to myself. I wouldn't want to sleep apart every night though, unless he started snoring or something.

 

[ChicagoGirl82]

....in my instance, hubby was sleeping in someone else's bed...so now I choose to sleep in my own bed in my own room...he won't be honest & he won't divorce - so, it is "existing" - at any rate, to answer the question - I think happily married couples who are in love with each other want to sleep in the same bed....anything else, there's an issue, and a big one....

Well quit waiting for him to divorce you and divorce. He can't force you to stay married to him.

 

[ChicagoGirl82]

?? um - yes, he has a choice - but let's just say the route he takes is "less than pleasant" and leave it at that - most would just not understand, period.

Um no he doesn't have a choice. Pack your #### and leave...If not its you who has to be unhappy forever... You need to make the choice for him. I don't know what lies he's feeding you or what lawyer you've talked to but you may need to talk to another one.