Middle Schooler with a cell phone

Take the phone to school?

  • Yes

    Votes: 32 64.0%
  • No

    Votes: 18 36.0%

  • Total voters
    50

Bann

Doris Day meets Lady Gaga
PREMO Member
Actually, many of us elderly individuals managed just fine without a cell phone and we WALKED fairly good distances to/from school...even elementary school. :yikes:

I lived overseas in elementary school and we didn't even have a phone!
 

Bann

Doris Day meets Lady Gaga
PREMO Member
Deleting messages is punishable by death or bodily injury. I go through his txt messages and recent calls list every couple days and I delete them. He is not allowed to delete stuff. But of course he can try.

This is true, but I am an a-hole and he fears me. He may try to sneak it out one day unnoticed but when I told him about deleting things I gave him the googly eye homocidal maniac look.


:killingme:
 

Bann

Doris Day meets Lady Gaga
PREMO Member
If you have Chaperone enabled.. the use of that ONE time can more than make up the cost of a cell phone..

It can pinpoint their location on YOUR phone, so you can find them, and it may not necessarily be them getting in trouble, but just in trouble.

Is this a feature offered? I didn't know there was something like this. So far, I've resisted mine having a cell phone, mainly because I don't want the expense. Especially if they go and lose them, etc. I am not into buying them one just so they can chit chat endlessly & text, etc. Phooey on that.

I've been able to keep tabs on them up to now. They have to call me when they get home from school & if they don't - I call them. If I call them - they get in trouble. I take them everywhere, so I always know where they are. But they're getting older. I might get a pay-as-you go phone to have when they travel to see their dad, or when they go to the library, afterschool activities, etc. And like anything else they have & lose or break - if they they lose it, they have to pay to replace it.
 

MysticalMom

Witchy Woman
If you have Chaperone enabled.. the use of that ONE time can more than make up the cost of a cell phone..

It can pinpoint their location on YOUR phone, so you can find them, and it may not necessarily be them getting in trouble, but just in trouble.

I didn't even know you could do that!

Do you know how to set that up? I looked all over the Verizon website and can't find anything about enabling a chaperone feature. Two of my my girls are in high school and will be driving soon. Dad's rule: When they start driving, they get cell phones. :yay: That feature could come in real handy.

Regardless, besides the fact that she never goes anywhere unchaperoned yet, I'm still not giving my middle schooler a cell phone. She's 11, a little immature for her age and no matter what I say or do, is not very responsible about her things. It's not about the cost of one cell phone, but the cost of the 2, 3, 4 or 5 I'd have to buy when she keeps losing them.
 

RoseRed

American Beauty
PREMO Member
I didn't even know you could do that!

Do you know how to set that up? I looked all over the Verizon website and can't find anything about enabling a chaperone feature. Two of my my girls are in high school and will be driving soon. Dad's rule: When they start driving, they get cell phones. :yay: That feature could come in real handy.

Regardless, besides the fact that she never goes anywhere unchaperoned yet, I'm still not giving my middle schooler a cell phone. She's 11, a little immature for her age and no matter what I say or do, is not very responsible about her things. It's not about the cost of one cell phone, but the cost of the 2, 3, 4 or 5 I'd have to buy when she keeps losing them.

The Verizon store will set it up.
 

Larry Gude

Strung Out
...

Agreed and that point was made VERY clear when I got home.

...let me know how that works. I got one who I still am not sure when she tells me the sun rises in the East, the oldest who every time I see him, he shares with me yet another 'omission' from back in the day and the other two who readily confess...whenever they are caught red handed.

:jameo:
 

bresamil

wandering aimlessly
I'm glad I don't have to worry about this. My two middle schoolers are practically the only ones in their classes without cell phones. In our school cell phones are not allowed but most of the kids/parents break the rules.

Oldest has his with him all the time but he keeps it off during the day. Activity log shows no activity during school hours.
 

happyappygirl

Rocky Mountain High!!
My 11 y/o has had one since she was 8. Never lost a single phone ever, and never gone over her minutes either. I pay for the insurance on it, since they can be hard on them (ie: she dropped it in the toilet once - but only once cause i made her use it for a week or so before i got her a replacement one :dead:)
She also just got contact lenses, and has been TERRIFIC with taking care of them and her eyes.
I am mildly concerned she'll get crackberry thumb though, she can text with 2 thumbs faster than i can type with 8 fingers added to my 2 thumbs!
she takes hers to school, leaves it in her locker or purse and doesn't use it during, off hours that she's not allowed. the school helps enforce that rule. Early on it was taken from her once by a teacher for having it on during class, and i had to go get it back. She lost it for a week that time, and never did it again.
 
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frogman123

New Member
Prepaid, or oneof the cells that can only call a couple numbers. It should only be for calling "mom and dad" for a ride.
 
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itsbob

I bowl overhand
My 11 y/o has had one since she was 8. Never lost a single phone ever, and never gone over her minutes either. I pay for the insurance on it, since they can be hard on them (ie: she dropped it in the toilet once - but only once cause i made her use it for a week or so before i got her a replacement one :dead:)
She also just got contact lenses, and has been TERRIFIC with taking care of them and her eyes.
I am mildly concerned she'll get crackberry thumb though, she can text with 2 thumbs faster than i can type with 8 fingers added to my 2 thumbs!
she takes hers to school, leaves it in her locker or purse and doesn't use it during, off hours that she's not allowed. the school helps enforce that rule. Early on it was taken from her once by a teacher for having it on during class, and i had to go get it back. She lost it for a week that time, and never did it again.


Shoot your daughter isn't good enough.

Every now and then I get a text from my daughter from school.

She's cool like that!
 

Pete

Repete
...let me know how that works. I got one who I still am not sure when she tells me the sun rises in the East, the oldest who every time I see him, he shares with me yet another 'omission' from back in the day and the other two who readily confess...whenever they are caught red handed.

:jameo:

I am holding out hope. He is pretty forthright 80% of the time but when he does lie it is for the dumbest things.
 

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

Well-Known Member
AND:

If the kid gets busted using the phone in school, they take their lumps. The rule usually is that they have to be turned off during class. If they forget to turn it off and someone texts or calls them in the middle of a class, they get their in-school suspension and too bad for them.

Or, if they're slick like me, when their mom decides to text them on their first day of highschool and their phone beeps in class, they play it off like a truck is backing up outside of the window :diva: (I think the kids knew I was FOS, but teacher bought it :lmao:)
 
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