sockgirl77
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I find it funny that people are freaking out over a bare back, but totally ignoring the other teen star who is knocked up.
That is soooo last month.
I find it funny that people are freaking out over a bare back, but totally ignoring the other teen star who is knocked up.
Y'all are still kirking out over this?
Yeah... "kirking"... That's what we're doing. Ever "kirked" about something Andy?
He "kirks" every day. He's currently "kirking" because the world is going to end in 2012.
You’ve got me wrong. For me, it’s all about holding parents accountable for what their kids do.
I'm all for parents being held accountable as well, which is why I find it absurd to put so much stake in celebrity influence. None of them mean boo to me or my kids. I tend not to get worked up over issues that I have absolutely no control over and are fairly trivial in the grand scheme of things.
I don't to pretend that what these entertainers do doesn't affect some of the minds of people out there, especially our kids.
They may very well affect some of the minds of people out there. I have no control over their minds, just my own and my kids, I have no inclination to get the vapors over anyone else's kids and their influences. Especially some silly little picture, that really was not intended to be interpreted as sexual in nature. It is hype for the sake of hype, which is just silly. Like I said before, I'm more shocked and offended by the stuff girls wear in dance. Why is it the same parents who are freaking out over Miley and her back, have no problem with parents in their own community hookering their little girls up in tiny little outfits to dance in front of an audience?
Unless your kid is hanging out with one of those kids. Do you really know, when your kid turns a teenager, what sort of things they will be picking up from other kids? You can’t isolate them.
What sort of interpretation were we to take away from a 15 year flashing bare-back with a sheet covering her front looking like she just got out of bed anyway? Is this some sort of picture they would put on their mantle? Are all these people that are taking this in a sexual way wrong? I’m only approaching this from a “I am fed up with the Hollywood garbage” routine. I’m approaching this from a standpoint that I hope parents stop allowing their kids to absorb this nonsense. Put them out of business. Stop looking to these entertainers to be some sort of standard for our kids to follow.
My kid does hang out with plenty of kids in dance. :shrug: I'm sure my kid will be picking up all sorts of things when she's a teenager, she's pretty clever, she picks things up now. The thing is, she's not a mindless moron who can't think for herself. Give your kids some credit. Do you really think that your kids strive to emulate an entertainer? Mine certainly don't. I've not met a kid yet who is that easily brainwashed. I'm sure they exist, but they are the minority.
I honestly didn't view the bare back picture as sexual. It was artsy fartsy, but not overtly sexual.
We're simply not going to agree on this issue. I think you are over reacting to a fairly benign photograph, and you think I'm naive and have my head shoved in the sand when it comes to the influence celebrities have on society. We can argue until we're blue in the face but the fact of the matter is, I am right and you are wrong.
I think we agree that parents need to be more responsible about what their kids are watching and listening to. I don’t think you are naïve… I just don’t think you believe it’s as big a problem as I do. Because it doesn’t affect your kids then it’s no big deal. I feel differently there. Even if it doesn’t affect my kid, I care about the ones that it does.
I have to disagree that the consumers ate up stupid behavior of Brittany, Lindsay, and Paris. I'd argue that the way they behaved hurt their popularity. Sure it sold a hell of a lot of tabloids, but their credibility as a talented role model is pretty much gone. They're more of a laughing stock than anything else.
Miley still hasn't even come close to having a Hollywood meltdown, and sure, the pics don't bode well for the image they are trying to maintain, but I don't think she's even remotely on the road to a Brittany style trainwreck.
I actually don't censor a whole lot of what my kids watch or listen to. I think having exposure to the current pop culture opens up a line of communication. :shrug: