True, but only if she had it to begin with. If her spouse didn't get her Survivor Benefit to begin with, it's too late now. As for his retirement pay, any court awarded portion of his retirement will be discontinued after his death unless you have SBP. This is not a set 50% either. It is calculated based on the number of years you were married to him while he was in the military. You had to be married to him at least 10 years during his time in service, if not, you're not entitled to any of his retirement. Get a lawyer.
Not true. She CAN get a portion even if married less than 10 years. 10 years is the magic figure where she MUST be given a portion. My lawyer explicitly explained to me that he would fight it (married 9 years) but I would be wasting my money since the courts always found for the female spouse. You might win in some states but not many blue ones.