We never know when it is going to happen.. I lost my mom 11 years ago and I thank god I was with her the day before and it was a good day... To get that phone call and rush to a hospital only to arrive to late... You never get over it.. I wish I could talk to her or see her in person not just in my dreams.. so much has changed. If you are lucky enough to have your mother here with you call her, go and see her and take her to dinner whenever you can.. Because it is hard to visit her at the gravesite. God bless all the Mothers and Fathers of the world...