My wife chose money over me !!

rpexie

rpexie

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I just saw this man sneaking around the back door of your house....
 

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unixpirate

unixpirate

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jakejohnson1969 said:
Im a happily married man, or at least I was til recently. Having kids makes moments of intimacy difficult as any body can tell you. Even if you arent trying to find intimate moments, you're still trying to find time alone with your spouse...am I right? So how would you feel if you found out all your kids were gone and you were going to have an afternoon of complete ALONE TIME with your wife? Totally excited,enthralled,driving like a maniac just to get home as fast as you can just so you can savor every single minute allotted to you right? Ok, so Im normal in my thought process there. Now imagine you get home and your getting ready to jump in the shower to freshen up and your wife tells you that she just got a phone call. A friend of the family ( who happens to be a complete jerk but showers money on your wife all the time without telling you ) wants to come by,pick you both up along with your child, who wont be home for 3 hours, and take you out to buy a present for that child. Being the levelheaded person that I am, I politely told her that our child wont be here for at least 3 hrs so there is no need for HIM to be here for at least 3 hrs...especially since his purpose is to take her along to pick out her own present. Makes perfect sense doesnt it? DONT FORGET THE FACT THAT MY WIFE AND I ARE ABOUT TO HAVE 3 HOURS OF ALONE TIME!!!! So why would you tell him " Sure, its ok. Come on over now." ARE YOU KIDDING ME? LET ME GET THIS STRAIGHT...MY WIFE CALLED ME !!! TO TELL ME THAT WE HAD 3 HRS... ALONE...TO OURSELVES...NO KIDS AT ALL...NO INTERRUPTIONS AND THEN THE MOMENT I STEP IN THE DOOR SHE CALLS HIM TO SAY COME ON OVER ??? WHY ???
And then it hit me...she wanted him to spend beaucoup money on HER as well. Lets face it, that is his pattern. Everytime HE wants to buy something for my kids, my wife SUBTLY hints about other purchases she "needs" to make in front of him so, he just buys whatever she "needs" along with slipping her a little cash in her hand as well..if you call $300.00 a little cash. BTW, her "needs" are never less that $500.00 a piece.Yes, He is loaded too.
So do I think that there is anything sexual going on between these two? Not at all. I know him and her too well to assume that but nevertheless, OUR time together was passed over for a shopping spree on her behalf. The part that doesnt make any sense to me is that I have expressed to both of them my anger and frustration with this activity of another man buying things for my wife. THATS MY JOB AND NO ONE ELSES !!! He was told this straight to his face and she was too. My wife agree'd that this was inappropriate behavior on her part and it would never happen again....or at least thats what she told me. He stayed away for at least 9 months without spending money on my wife or children. ( And we didnt miss it at all ) But, later I found out that the reason he called my wife was she left him a voice mail 2 days earlier !!!!! It appears that my daughters electronic device was purchased thru him and was it was faulty. My wife "needed" him to be present to replace it since the receipt was in his name. WOW, WHAT GREAT WAY TO LURE HIM BACK INTO YOUR LIFE AND BACK INTO HIS SPENDING HABITS AGAIN !!!
Since this has all happened, she has yet to apologize or even explain why she behaved this way and quite honestly I dont feel she would anyways. I sure would like some feedback from anyone on this situation. Im getting sick and tired of hearing her say how much she has changed. It appears that when opportunity ISNT present she can say she has changed. But when opportunity does show up, she goes right back to the "old self".
Im still pi**ed off about this whole thing. Not about her mooching off him again...Im pi**ed at that too but the fact that she traded our precious time alone for a damn shopping spree for my daughter ( cough cough ) and her self.
Ya know, maybe Im looking at this all wrong !!! It seems to be acceptable behavior for a man to go out and buy things for another man wife ( as displayed by my wife )so maybe I should take another mans wife out and spend money on her. Hmmmmmm.
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MY eye's hurt readiing this!
 
Toxick

Toxick

Splat
Abc123 said:
Sheesh. I give up. Did you NOT read the part where I said I previously DID NOT KNOW THAT PARTICULAR SONG EXISTED????
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Not until after I wrote my response.

It happens sometimes... where someone responds without reading the whole thread. This is not an uncommon phenomenon around here, and nothing to get bent out of shape about.



Abc123 said:
So YOU must be a Britney Spears fan!!!!!!!! :buddies:
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I so am.
 
lnmarsh

lnmarsh

Love * Luck * Faith
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This thread is... interesting. No. Not even interesting. Its just... strange.

OP... Heres the thing. You've let this happen by not truly putting your foot down. If it really bothers you that baddly, then leave. But if you dont want to leave, and she wont stop, then learn to deal. You basically have two options if she dosnt stop: Get over it and deal, or leave.

Is what shes doing right? I personally dont think so. I think what shes doing is a little but o' bullshyt actually. But if she dosnt stop, you either need to GET OVER IT or LEAVE. Stop b1tching about it. People cant help you if you're not willing to help yourself. Just sayin... :coffee:

Oh, and...

jakejohnson1969 said:
I always heard that men were the microwaves...ready in seconds and women were the "crock"pots who took so long to warm up...since when did women become the now or nevers?
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We do take a minute to warm up... but when we want yall to commence the warming up, we want it commenced RIGHT THEN.
 
LadyWolf

LadyWolf

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I think that entire story sounds way too weird! :confused: Why in the world would some other man buy gifts for your wife and kids? That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever! It sounds bogus to me for some reason. I don't know why, but I'm having a hard time buying the fact that she called some guy to come over to ya'll house 3 hours before you kid got home, so he could go out and spend money on her and your kid. If this is true, you really need to have a pow wow w/the Mrs and lay down the law!!! It's disrespectful to you and she clearly has no consideration for your feelings.
 
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BELDsmom

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Sorry, but she's banging him no question about it. But if you would like to get even you could always spend some money on me! :diva:
 
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Traffic

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I know a guy like that!

Dear husband of wife that has sugar daddy,
I actually know a guy like that. He has a whole bunch of women he gives money to. He goes down a sub shop in town where the young girls work and lavishes money on them for their birthday, etc(all so inappropriate) He doesn't even realize he is being dupped for his money. He actually lives in a fantasy world where he thinks these people really like him. He sends money over to the phillipines to a girl over there. He went over one time with a pervert guy friend and hooked up with a few girls(all ugly) then, he started sending money to one of the girls younger sisters(how sick) He has a pic of him with her family(they look like they just won the lottery. You see there are men in this world who like buy women period. Her sugar daddy is one of these. If you don't know already he is a sick mother who just wants her and is going to keep giving her stuff until he gets something if he isn't already.
I don't know what to tell you. I don't think you are dumb it propably started out like slow. I would just let it go & get everything you could from that son of a b...... because he's trying to get everything from you so beat him at his own game. She only wants to take money off him or she would be with him already!
Traffic:duel:
 
Wenchy

Wenchy

Hot Flash
Traffic said:
Dear husband of wife that has sugar daddy,
I actually know a guy like that. He has a whole bunch of women he gives money to. He goes down a sub shop in town where the young girls work and lavishes money on them for their birthday, etc(all so inappropriate) He doesn't even realize he is being duped
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Duped? How old is this guy?

I had one who would come into my store (he was about 75) and just wanted to sit there and watch all the gals and get some good conversation going. He never tried to pick me or anyone else up and my husband never complained about all the seafood he would bring me. He was the owner of a seafood plant in Crisfield. :lol: There were several times he did come in with a young gal to buy her a birthday present. No big deal. JMO. Nice guy and I miss him. He always wanted to talk to me about his wife who had passed away years before.

This could be the case with the OP's wife's sugar daddy and other lonely men you hear about.
 
twinoaks207

twinoaks207

Having Fun!
itsbob said:
She only wants me for my tractor..
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Obviously, she thinks your tractor's sexy.



(Oh, gosh, I'm so sorry, I just couldn't help it -- it was there, waiting, and I had to take the shot.)

As far as this thread is concerned, I'm not sure what's more sad -- the OP's situation, some of the comments that were posted, or the fact that this is part of my Friday night entertainment...:popcorn:
 
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