Nervous Breakdown

[kris31280]

Dude, you are definitely the male version of Kris!!!! Something to be proud of!!

I've never turned a chick into a lesbian...at least I'm pretty sure!

don't tell them about that! I'm pretty sure she was already a lesbian

kris?

Look you two yahoos... cut the crap. Seriously. It's only funny when it's in a thread I'm guarenteed to read, and I find it highly disturbing that you both find so much time to banter about me in various threads, only to have me discover it days later. Why don't you two just go become butt buddies or something? Ugh. This thread isn't even about me, so quit trying to bring me in to it.

So to you Nachomamma, I say go out this weekend, let people know what's going on, and you'll be surprised at how much love & support you'll get from all. And you'll be surprised at how many of us are going through it this year. And right now, you'll get shoulders to cry on and hear others experiences and feelings about our losses. But if you think you're gonna get a lot of offers for one night stands, everyone knows your not ready for that yet.

Then she'd become THAT GIRL... the one in the bar... who's drinking or drunk... who tells her sob story and has other girls going "That guy's such an #######!" but secretly they're judging her for being so down in the dumps and being THAT GIRL. I can only assume by your post that you're a guy, and there's a double standard there... because women are natually nuturing kind of people and when they see someone sad and upset, they naturally want to take care of them... so with you being a guy, who's been wronged by a girl, when you seemingly did nothing wrong... that's a big case for a woman to come in and give you the "Oh my god, that's so sad, here let me kiss the boo boo better" treatment. A girl walks in to a bar and does that, the guys in the bar stay FAR FAR away... because that chick's just become the crazy psycho chick who just can't seem to get over her ex, and they want no part of it.

Nacho, you know you've got tons of friends willing to lend an ear, a hand, a shoulder, or even help you lift a glass to get that last drop of liquor. Time heals all wounds, eventually.

 

[Beta84]

why don't you dig up more threads and cry about it some more

 

[girlygirl87]

Somebody help me! I really think I'm having a nervous breakdown.

I just recently went through a very nasty breakup with someone whom I thought was the love of my life. I've tried to get him back, but I think he's done. In the past few weeks since our breakup, I've been super depressed, can't eat, can't sleep, I've been drinking a lot (which I rarely ever do), and have had serious temper tantrums. I am very much a people person, but I'd rather just sit in my room under the covers watching the XM Satellite channels on Directv. I don't want to be around people. I feel like I never smile anymore, my nerves are shot.

I'm thinking about just walking into the hospital and saying "check me in", but don't know if I should maybe go see a shrink.

Please help me - I'm at my wits end, and don't want to be the person I have become in the last month.

Serious replies only please. I don't think I could take any nasty comments. :sad:

I am so sorrry. But i kno the pain that you are going thru.. I am only 22 and i have been experiencing this heartache for much longer than i should. It has not been easy.. I know that this is different... I allowed myself to constantly fall back under him over and over. But there does come a time where you will look back and think.. he was an ass.. and did not deserve me. I just again fell for it again and am left shattered while he is out with some new chick..

I have thought NUMEROUS times about going to a shrink and talking to someone about this. It does hurt more than ever, but sometimes, all it takes is for realllyyy goood friends that you can sit down and talk too. ALot of my friends got sick of me always talking to them about it, but the ones that are always by my side always listened and gave there advice.

Weeks from now, you will look back and be ok! I promise. If you need anything just PM me.. because i am feeeeling this crazyyy rage of emotions myself. Take care!!

 

[girlygirl87]

Yeah. I'm going through the motions, I put on a fake smile, I'm the happy go lucky guy I've always been, but when the day is over and I'm in that empty house....but every day gets a little better.

i do it every single day of my life and it does not feel like it gets better every day. Having that one love rip to to shreads is a feeling i wish to never have again... But as i have heard.. "time heals everything...."

 

[lisa8439]

saw this thread bumped and was hoping that you are doing a little better, nacho.

I think most people have been in this position at some point and time does heal a bit - don't worry, you'll find someone soon who will make you thank your lucky stars that it didn't work out this time.

 

[RoseRed]

It may really hurt bad now girlygirl, but better to clear the air now, then to have other issues that would be around for a lifetime.

...

Before he deletes his post.