itsbob
I bowl overhand
I don't want to discuss how to raise your kid, I don't know what help is available, I can't take your cat, and I don't know what problems the cat may have that would cause it to stop using the litter box.
My only suggestion to you would be, if the cat is not declawed, can you put the cat outdoors? I know it's not the most ideal solution, however it might be the best solution for you and your family. At least the cat can continue to get fed and not be put down immediately. Just a suggestion........
Do us all a favor and kill the f'in cat before you let it wander ouside.. If you live in my neighborhood, that may result in your cat's demise quicker than if you took it to a shelter.
What an ignorant suggestion.. now her problem becomes the entire neighborhoods problem.. (no offense, I say this with all good intentions)