Libby here is my response in two separate window posts. My original text is too long to post on one:
Part 1
This all sounds very much like the position that I adhere to as a Catholic, it is just a matter of semantics.
Of course, God knows the ultimate destiny of each of us, but he also desires the salvation of each of us. What I cannot reconcile about what you and Starman are saying (unless I've misunderstood) is that God's grace was never with the unsaved. I believe God offered His grace to those souls, but they rejected it.
Hi libby,
I think you may have misunderstood the part we have spoken of regarding God's Grace. The whole reason for Jesus Christ's Atonement is just exactly as the Holy Bible tells us. Here are just a few examples:
"And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up:
That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life.
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved."
(John 3:14-17)
and;
But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him.
For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life.
And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement. (Romans 5:8-11)
This is more than God's Grace, libby, it is God's actual Offer for all of mankind to receive Salvation unto Eternal Life through no one else but Jesus Christ. God's Message to the world is to let people know that people cannot save themselves - they need a Saviour and that Saviour is His Son, Jesus Christ as stated in the New Testament. Note that the verse above states that
"while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us..."That means that while people are yet "unsaved" they always have God's Grace abounding and calling them to repentance as mentioned in Scripture:
"The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance." (2 Peter 3:9)
God is extremely patient with the unsaved humanity in this world and He goes that extra mile with His patience in our own wayward ways that we take in life. Actually, there was a time when I even thought I was already saved just because I believed in God, went to church and thought I hadn't really been all "that bad". The only thing is...I really did not know God through a personal and spiritual relationship as what occurs when we are saved/born-again.
Also, the key action on anyone's part is the act of "repenting" which is turning away from the things in this world that keep us from seeking God and letting Him control our lives. Long story, short: I was fortunate to be given many opportunities to become "rich and famous" but each time I climbed the ladder I found that my achievements did not really make me happy. I felt an emptiness inside that material things just could not satisfy. At that time, I still sensed God's guidance but was given over to following the jet-set and assuming managerial positions of prestige just because I thought this is what society expected of me. As I reached the top of a promising career others saw me as a successful person but in reality my personal life was unhappy and my marriage was falling to pieces. I knew I needed to get my life straightened out with God and as mentioned in my testimony it was through His Divine Intervention that my wife and I were saved and our marriage kept together.
I believe that a good and loving God, who desires salvation for everyone will grant His grace to anyone who asks and is willing to receive it, even for a time. Because while He may know if we are going to fall away, we do not, and it is not in keeping with His Love to withold His help knowing that apart from it we are helpless.
The Holy Bible says that some people turn away because they willfully chose to reject God's Plan of Salvation and rather wanted to live in darkness. In essence, they have condemned their ownself
And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. (John 3:19-20)
Another way that people willfully do not receive God's Salvation is because they are religiously deceived by not trusting that Jesus' Atonement is what saves them. Instead, many are taught that they need to continue earning and meriting favor with God in order to be "saved". There are many many religions that say Jesus alone cannot save them. Here is what Jesus had to say on that matter in the Book of John, Chapter 10:
1: Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that entereth not by the door into the sheepfold, but climbeth up some other way, the same is a thief and a robber...
9: I am the door: by me if any man enter in, he shall be saved, and shall go in and out, and find pasture.
A Promise is that God never turns anyone away when a person sincerely seeks Him:
I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me. (Proverbs 8:17)
And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart. (Jeremiah 29:13)
And Jesus said unto them,
I am the bread of life: he that cometh to me shall never hunger; and he that believeth on me shall never thirst.
But I said unto you, That ye also have seen me, and believe not.
All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out. For I came down from heaven, not to do mine own will, but the will of him that sent me. (John 6:35-38)