I'm not looking for dating advice because I'm solid with regard to my position on this. But:
It is commonly accepted that men like to chase, and call women who do the chasing "cling-ons" or some other derogatory name indicating that they don't like it. Yes, there are exceptions but that is pretty much the rule.
Yet women are predisposed to nurturing, and that includes men they are romantically interested in. I know with me, if I'm blowing you off and not giving you attention that means I'm not interested. And once I'm not (or no longer) interested, that's it - game over.
So here comes the guy who wasn't interested, until *she* became disinterested, and now he's suddenly interested. How does that work? I've had this happen to me a number of times: I like him, he isn't interested, I shrug and move on, he starts blowing up my phone. Or he likes me, I'm not interested, he doesn't move on, instead he blows up my phone until I'm forced to be rude. A few times it's been that we like each other, he starts getting lazy with the courting, I lose interest, he tries to woo me back, but too late because it's over as far as I'm concerned.
The whole thing just seems so stupid. Heterosexuality: God's little joke.
It is commonly accepted that men like to chase, and call women who do the chasing "cling-ons" or some other derogatory name indicating that they don't like it. Yes, there are exceptions but that is pretty much the rule.
Yet women are predisposed to nurturing, and that includes men they are romantically interested in. I know with me, if I'm blowing you off and not giving you attention that means I'm not interested. And once I'm not (or no longer) interested, that's it - game over.
So here comes the guy who wasn't interested, until *she* became disinterested, and now he's suddenly interested. How does that work? I've had this happen to me a number of times: I like him, he isn't interested, I shrug and move on, he starts blowing up my phone. Or he likes me, I'm not interested, he doesn't move on, instead he blows up my phone until I'm forced to be rude. A few times it's been that we like each other, he starts getting lazy with the courting, I lose interest, he tries to woo me back, but too late because it's over as far as I'm concerned.
The whole thing just seems so stupid. Heterosexuality: God's little joke.