Question for a friend

Tina2001aniT

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Nickel said:
I think it's wonderfully admirable that she is setting her social life aside for her child's sake. There are too many single (and married for that matter) moms who do nothing but nurture their "partying side" and pawn their kids off on other people.
She said "pawn off your kids".......:roflmao:
 

Nickel

curiouser and curiouser
HollowSoul said:
too bad that is true
About an hour and a half ago, my son, who is only two came up to me and said "Mommy, where's my dad?". I kinda stood there for a minute, and said "What did you say sweetie?". "Where's my dad?". I didn't know what to say, so I just blurted out "I don't know", and he said "Ok!". I'm gonna have to come up with a better answer. :shocking:
 
Nickel said:
About an hour and a half ago, my son, who is only two came up to me and said "Mommy, where's my dad?". I kinda stood there for a minute, and said "What did you say sweetie?". "Where's my dad?". I didn't know what to say, so I just blurted out "I don't know", and he said "Ok!". I'm gonna have to come up with a better answer. :shocking:
Oh god do i feel you...mine asked bout 6 months ago or so...and i'm saying..."can we talk about this in the morning?"
 
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Tina2001aniT

New Member
Nickel said:
you've never heard that phrase before? :confused:

No sweetheart, I have heard it, long story short.....I RARELY go out and when I do it is mostly when my kiddo is previously occupied....I said domething in a thread once that I would go somewhere if I could find a sitter, and got a bunch of crap for "pawning off my kid", so it has been a running joke between a few of us....
 

mixallagist

Be careful what u wish 4
Oz said:
Yup! At 35, she definitely knows what's best for her... Sounds like she has a good family to support her, and she's really got it together.

There are two good situations for a single mom and dating. Either the father is out of the picture completely, or the father is involved with the child, and totally over the mom.

With a child that young, she has to be extremely careful. Dating should be totally removed from the child. Men have to be prepared to prove themself to her as a friend first, and then as a potential partner in the future, or they are not worthy of her time. She should occasionally go out with girlfriends, or groups, just to retain her own identity. But dating and looking for a father figure as you suggested, probably wouldn't turn up anything but trouble...
:yeahthat:
 
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Ernie

Guest
I believe you received some good advice from the members. Not much more I can ad.
 
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HollowSoul

Guest
Thanx all........the advice wasn't really for me...it was for a friend of mine, she was just a lil skeptical about posting the query.
Again...thanx.....
~HS~
 

Oz

You're all F'in Mad...
HollowSoul said:
Thanx all........the advice wasn't really for me...it was for a friend of mine, she was just a lil skeptical about posting the query.


Well, our bark is much worse than our bite.

Now, who wants to start on helping those dealing with the "Where's my Daddy" questions... :confused:
 
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