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Poohhunny1605

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bresamil said:
You must be asking this of hotmomma. I have no trouble or discomfort discussing sex and bodily functions with my children, but I do believe the book I mentioned to be an excellent tool in those discussions.
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Yes sorry to HotMomma :howdy:
 
Richard Cranium

Richard Cranium

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bresamil said:
You must be asking this of hotmomma. I have no trouble or discomfort discussing sex and bodily functions with my children, but I do believe the book I mentioned to be an excellent tool in those discussions.
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You said "tool" :lmao:
 
kalmd

kalmd

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bresamil said:
There's a great book at the library - What's happening to me? is I think the title or What's happening to my body? - one for boys and one for girls.

Anyhow I gave my oldest son this book at 10 and we discussed it - which is how I found out how little his friends knew of truth. He didn't discuss it with them but after we'd gone over it - and to this day (he's 15) - he'll tell me that friends think *insert wrong information here* and he's glad he's smarter than that.

Boy 2 has also read the book and gone through the discussion (He's 12).

I'm getting the girl the book this summer - she just turned 10.
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I got the boys version for my son today. He's 11. The book looks very mature for an 11 year old. I looked on Amazon and it's made for ages 9-12. My son just seems so young to be learning all this stuff, but I don't want him to not know things either. Why can't they just stay innocent babies?
 
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hborror

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My mother never gave me a talk. I started mine at the age of 11 and I was alone as to WTH was going on with me. Since my parents were at work and I was at the sitters house.
 
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Redskinsmama

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my mother took me to one of those "mom and me" meetings and dropped me off and picked me back up when it was over! not only that, she wouldn't tell me what i was going to, she just said there was an activity at the school for girls only. I was so pissed off when she picked me up!
 
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nitwhit3286

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My mom talked to me about sex at 8 years old. Never said anything about the monthly visit up until i was 13 and I got my period. when i told her what was happening she ran into her bathroom and said "put this on" and that was about it. Thats how I learned I guess. They have sex ed in school...well it started when I was in 5th grade. I remember all the moms gathered in the classroom with their daughter's and watched these old outdated videos. Pretty much everything I actually learned came from sex-ed at school. Not saying my mom didn't tell me anything, she just gave an overview. :yay:
 
beerlover

beerlover

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Poohhunny1605 said:
Yeah my mom bought the "Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus" book for my brother and gave it to him when he was 16 when he got his first girlfriend. She said she never had anything to discuss with him about until then because he "knew it all", couldn't tell him anything. Well, both of us kids ended up having sex at 16 or before and I really don't regret it, but I don't want my child to do what I did when I was younger, I wasn't mature enough and didn't know a dag on thing about sex. I wish my mom would have sat down with me and told me about sex and the menustration things. Then again, I had an easier time talking to my doctor about it then I did my mom.

Suggestion: Maybe next time she goes to the doctors for a physical or something mention it to the doctor to say something to her maybe? I mean if you are uncomfortable about the discussion ?
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EWWWW! You had sex with your brother!!!
 
Beelzebaby666

Beelzebaby666

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Alot of young girls are starting much earlier than I am my friends did.:ohwell:

My cousins and my kiddo started before they were 11, while I was about 13, my mothers at about 15. I think it's due to all the hormones and crap in milk and food:barf:

Anywho, I'm open with my kids about nudity and our bodies. My daughter knew what was up by the time she was 8. When the time came around, she was already prepared and has handled it maturely and competently. My cousin wasn't so well informed..
 
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nitwhit3286

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yep.. i have stopped poisoning my child with milk that contains HVD. Screw that, I don't want her growing up faster than what she already is. So, now my choice is organic.
 
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