Religions

Should kids be allowed to choose thie religion?

  • Yes

    Votes: 22 75.9%
  • No

    Votes: 4 13.8%
  • Has to be the same as parents

    Votes: 3 10.3%

  • Total voters
    29

punjabigyrl

Active Member
Whatever fancies you clevalley. Your comment is exactly why I am teaching my kids ALL religions.
 
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itsbob

I bowl overhand
Three kids in my family.. raised Methodist.. One's a Quaker, One's a Mormon, and then there is me..

Your kids will find their own way, just make sure you raise them with good morals and values.
 
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toppick08

Guest
Three kids in my family.. raised Methodist.. One's a Quaker, One's a Mormon, and then there is me..

Your kids will find their own way, just make sure you raise them with good morals and values.

I knew I liked you from day one...........:lol:
 

jenbengen

Watch it
I believe in the Great Spirit and unlike organized religion, believe in a natural cathedral that is the outside world. I need no middleman, but what goes on between me and the Great Creator is our business alone.I would hope by our personal examples we would encourage our children to respect the world around them. I was raised a catholic but I am enraged by a papacy that lives like emperors as a majority of their flock lives in abject poverty, while the wealthy among them think it is their entitled right to live like the popes. Likewise, I am appalled by the wealth of the televangelists who live off the tithes of their followers. I think this is an equally bad example to follow.
Like earlier generations, the children of today want to find meaning and purpose. I hope in my heart that they don't emulate the 60s generation and find answers in drugs. There is only a dark end on an even darker shadow road. I hope they find the truth in themselves, but we are the physical examples they have to look to and we must not fail them.

I can appreciate your personal relationship, without a doubt. But, church isn't considered a "middle man". The Bible considers church as part of the body of Christ and goes into detail about the purpose of church. It isn't really a "middle man" as many people think, if the church functions how the Bible intends for it to function. :yay:
 

jenbengen

Watch it
I knew I liked you from day one...........:lol:

:lmao:

Goooo St Pauls (or First Saints...whatever we call ourselves these days).

:yay:

Oh, and to answer the actual topic question- I'm raising my children in a methodist church and, to be perfectly honest, hope they follow our lead as teenagers and adults, but I will never force anything on them. It's a personal journey for them and I won't stand in the way of them discovering things for themselves. I resent how my mother acted to this day for not attending my baptism as an adult because I wasn't being baptised Catholic. I won't be that person to my kids. They can make their own decisions, regardless of what I want for them.
 
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itsbob

I bowl overhand
I can appreciate your personal relationship, without a doubt. But, church isn't considered a "middle man". The Bible considers church as part of the body of Christ and goes into detail about the purpose of church. It isn't really a "middle man" as many people think, if the church functions how the Bible intends for it to function. :yay:

The Bible states Church HAS to be a part of the relationship.. and who wrote the Bible??
 

Mateo

New Member
I can appreciate your personal relationship, without a doubt. But, church isn't considered a "middle man". The Bible considers church as part of the body of Christ and goes into detail about the purpose of church. It isn't really a "middle man" as many people think, if the church functions how the Bible intends for it to function. :yay:

However, this also is open to interpretation.
In my humble opinion, no matter how flawed it is, too many times the person acting as the middleman, forgets the message.
Jim Jones is the classic example, and we know that power corrupts.
The Reformation was supposed to call attention to the poor health of the Roman Catholic Church, which had been ailing since the Papacy had taken the place of the Western Roman Emperor, but what resulted, was a schism that we have seen up to this day. It's relationship with the Eastern Church is yet to be resolved also.
More muslims have been killed in the internicine warfare between their sections, so they arn't free from the fallacies either.
We each come to God or whatever you may call the greater Deity by different paths.
 

godsbutterfly

Free to Fly
I am teaching my kids what I believe in. That goes for everything not just religion. There will come a point though when they will have to choose for themselves what they want to believe. At that point all I can hope for is that I did a good enough job raising them.

I also taught my kids what I believe in all aspects. I always felt that I wouldn't be a good parent if I wasn't living by example to the best of my ability. So, my kids know I'm not perfect but they also know where I stand on moral issues and on God.
 

SShewbert

What love is all about
I also taught my kids what I believe in all aspects. I always felt that I wouldn't be a good parent if I wasn't living by example to the best of my ability. So, my kids know I'm not perfect but they also know where I stand on moral issues and on God.



I agree. I have made some mistakes. I will not lie to my kids about what I have done just so they wont do it. I do not want to be a hypocrite. Instead I plan on telling them I have been there, it was a mistake for me but you have to learn on your own. If you can learn by my mistakes then great that you wont have to go through that yourself. If it takes you going through it to learn I will be here for you.
 

Mateo

New Member
I also taught my kids what I believe in all aspects. I always felt that I wouldn't be a good parent if I wasn't living by example to the best of my ability. So, my kids know I'm not perfect but they also know where I stand on moral issues and on God.

You are doing as any loving parent(s) would do.....you care. Seems like if we had more of that today, then a whole mess of problems would be passe'.
 

SShewbert

What love is all about
I can appreciate your personal relationship, without a doubt. But, church isn't considered a "middle man". The Bible considers church as part of the body of Christ and goes into detail about the purpose of church. It isn't really a "middle man" as many people think, if the church functions how the Bible intends for it to function. :yay:

Yes the church is the body of Christ. It also states though that wherever 2 or 3 people are gathered in God's name you have established a church. The church is the people that are worshipping God, not the building in which the people are in.
 

Mateo

New Member
I agree. I have made some mistakes. I will not lie to my kids about what I have done just so they wont do it. I do not want to be a hypocrite. Instead I plan on telling them I have been there, it was a mistake for me but you have to learn on your own. If you can learn by my mistakes then great that you wont have to go through that yourself. If it takes you going through it to learn I will be here for you.

There's nothing wrong in making mistakes..as long as you keep learning from them. Lord knows I have made a boatload and I guess my curse...lol...is to wander until I have learned from all of them ..or the Great Spirit decides to ZAP me good !
 

Xaquin44

New Member
The Bible considers church as part of the body of Christ and goes into detail about the purpose of church. It isn't really a "middle man" as many people think, if the church functions how the Bible intends for it to function. :yay:

the bible states the exact opposite.

"And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward."
"But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly."

Matthew 6 vs. 5 and 6

straight from the lips of jesus.

but anyway.
 

Mateo

New Member
the bible states the exact opposite.

"And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward."
"But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly."

Matthew 6 vs. 5 and 6

straight from the lips of jesus.

but anyway.

Well said,
When I lived in Hawaii, the biggest hypocrites were the ones that professed the loudest..they were also the most racist in a supposed melting pot.
 
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