pelers
Active Member
So the little girl is mobile now, crawling everywhere chasing after her brother. When she was stationary he'd bring toys over to her and sit and play. Now that she's chasing HIM he's getting grumpy.
She'll crawl over and reach for what he's playing with and he'll start pushing and swatting at her. I grab his arms and tell him that he needs to be nice to his sister, but it's (obviously) having no effect.
This is where I get weird. I DON'T think that he should have to share his toys with her. It's his toy, he was playing with it, there is absolutely no reason he should have to give it up just because somebody else comes up and demands it. Even if that somebody else is his cute as a button baby sister.
What I need is for him to stop swatting and pushing her. Thoughts? Should I try and get him to help me pick out a toy for her to play with instead? Encourage him to share, but if he doesn't want to then try the first idea? Any ideas? Please?
She'll crawl over and reach for what he's playing with and he'll start pushing and swatting at her. I grab his arms and tell him that he needs to be nice to his sister, but it's (obviously) having no effect.
This is where I get weird. I DON'T think that he should have to share his toys with her. It's his toy, he was playing with it, there is absolutely no reason he should have to give it up just because somebody else comes up and demands it. Even if that somebody else is his cute as a button baby sister.
What I need is for him to stop swatting and pushing her. Thoughts? Should I try and get him to help me pick out a toy for her to play with instead? Encourage him to share, but if he doesn't want to then try the first idea? Any ideas? Please?