A guy friend and I have been having an ongoing argument about this:
I know several men who have married absolute vipers, who took their money, raked them over the coals, and left them screwed, blued and tattooed. Literally tattooed - branded for life with this #####'s name on some body part.
She got the house, alimony, child support, everything, and a guy who is making over $100k a year is renting a room from someone because that's all he can afford.
Before you blame her too much, these guys all pretty much did this to themselves. All of them could have easily gotten a better divorce deal - one of them is actually still married to a woman he has never lived with and sees a few times a year, yet he sends her his paycheck so she can live in their awesome house in another state (with her young children from a previous marriage).
I want that deal. I want to hook up with some guy who will live in another state and just send me money every month. My guy friend says I'm too independent to play the game and I don't have it in me to victimize some poor schmuck - I disagree with that. My thinking is that he's going to get played by someone and end giving her all his money anyway - that someone might as well be me.
So whaddaya think? Granted, I'm probably 20 years too late for golddigging, but I'm still a decent catch for some dummy...uh, I mean gentleman. He'll I'd even cook him dinner and throw some butt his way every now and then. Plus my house is always clean, which is better than any of those guys got with the women who now have all their cash.
Does it make me a bad person that I want the money that would go to some harpy for myself?
I know several men who have married absolute vipers, who took their money, raked them over the coals, and left them screwed, blued and tattooed. Literally tattooed - branded for life with this #####'s name on some body part.
She got the house, alimony, child support, everything, and a guy who is making over $100k a year is renting a room from someone because that's all he can afford.
Before you blame her too much, these guys all pretty much did this to themselves. All of them could have easily gotten a better divorce deal - one of them is actually still married to a woman he has never lived with and sees a few times a year, yet he sends her his paycheck so she can live in their awesome house in another state (with her young children from a previous marriage).
I want that deal. I want to hook up with some guy who will live in another state and just send me money every month. My guy friend says I'm too independent to play the game and I don't have it in me to victimize some poor schmuck - I disagree with that. My thinking is that he's going to get played by someone and end giving her all his money anyway - that someone might as well be me.
So whaddaya think? Granted, I'm probably 20 years too late for golddigging, but I'm still a decent catch for some dummy...uh, I mean gentleman. He'll I'd even cook him dinner and throw some butt his way every now and then. Plus my house is always clean, which is better than any of those guys got with the women who now have all their cash.
Does it make me a bad person that I want the money that would go to some harpy for myself?
