My co-worker had a close tie to my sister. We all laughed after a field trip.I don't KNOW them. I used to - when our groups were put together. If I am at work, none of my co-workers are there - the schedules are staggered, because too few desks to sit at. So even when I go in, no one I work with is in.
The people who sit near me - when I am in - some of them don't speak much English. And they don't want to fraternize.
It really WAS different, thirty plus years ago, when we would go to the bar after work or play softball. They plowed over the fields, the bar is gone, and the people I knew have left.
Yeah, it's sad, but the few people I do know - work is like that, for them too. It's a place to show up and go home.
After today's FF loss, too sad to comment on.