Well Jet monkey, like every college and every organization there is a plethora of personalities, backgrounds, and characters at St Mary's. If you feel you had a bad experience there, I am sorry. Maybe you just ran into the lax team
(hehehe just kidding, couldn't resist).
After attending four years there like jimmy, andwhat and zoss I have had a range of experiences with the students, faculty and staff. I would say the 95% of those experiences were possitive. Of course there are plenty of people i did not care for and some of them I would consider snotty elitists. But they were the vast minority and I can't begin to tell you how many different wonderful people I got to know there. I have friends from 7 classes, including my own, that cover almost every personality you can imagine. They, more then the education, have affected my life.
I am not sure who you ran into and spent time with there and why they have left you with such a negative feeling. It is possible that they were snotty elitists but perhaps you just had a bad opinion of the school going in which caused you to get defensive and ready to have a bad time. my guess is that you were just trying to pick fights; being confontational, argumentative, cocky and rude in an unfamiliar place...just like you tend to be on this forum. No one like an a$$ so if you acted like one, you were probably treated like one.
After reading some of your posts I would put money on the problem being you, not the college.