Let me rephrase that...it shouldn’t be the ONLY thing that you do in your golden years. You seem like you have lots of hobbies and have don’t a lot in your life. You’re fine carving out a little piece of each day to spout nonsense!
The unsolicited PM thread
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Let me rephrase that...it shouldn’t be the ONLY thing that you do in your golden years. You seem like you have lots of hobbies and have don’t a lot in your life. You’re fine carving out a little piece of each day to spout nonsense!
Joining in the hate?
Speaking only for myself - I don't hate the person who posts as Littlelady. I don't know her in real life, thank God. She would be someone I would avoid anytime I saw her coming. She's a fruitcake. I often do ignore her, but she is typically deliberately provocative and downright nasty to posters (including myself) and that chit gets old. See, I totally get what you're saying, but here's the thing: no one actually forces her to come into the forums and be a nasty person who often lashes out at posters for NO apparent reason. This has been the way she has been in ALL of her "screennames/personas" here. As you can see from the thread I bumped from Oct0ber 2012, she posted to ME in March 2012 apologizing for having lashed out me. She was here only about 3 months or so at that point. (Mamatutu appeared on the scene about 12/2011)
She (Mamatutu) was banned here about 3 years ago for that sort of thing: coming out of left field totally unprovoked (probably 1 too many times). What did she do then? She created a new screen name. She has posted here under several names that I can actually recall. Let's see: chesapeakedad, towtowtwo, mama, and the Littlelady name she uses now. I'm sure there are others. She's been outed quite a few times, and stops posting in the name. She's THAT transparent.
She is a mental case, yes. But she chooses to come here and air all of her dirty laundry and to take out her miserable life's frustrations out on people who come here for all sorts of reasons to socialize. She has a life, so she says. She has a husband, two grown kids, 2 grandchildren and pets. Why does she need to come here and act like a raving lunatic lashing out at people she doesn't even know? You say if she doesn't accept your help - it's all on her - well, it's all been on her, because she has had many people over the years here feel sorry for her and try to help her. She returns to the forums again & again to behave this way. She chooses to behave this way - so the way I see it is - it's all on her when posters who are tired of her shenanigans let her have it. YMMV
Let me rephrase that...it shouldn’t be the ONLY thing that you do in your golden years. You seem like you have lots of hobbies and have don’t a lot in your life. You’re fine carving out a little piece of each day to spout nonsense!
Joining in the hate?
See, I totally get what you're saying, but here's the thing: no one actually forces her to come into the forums and be a nasty person who often lashes out at posters for NO apparent reason. This has been the way she has been in ALL of her "screennames/personas" here. As you can see from the thread I bumped from Oct0ber 2012, she posted to ME in March 2012 apologizing for having lashed out me. She was here only about 3 months or so at that point. (Mamatutu appeared on the scene about 12/2011)
She (Mamatutu) was banned here about 3 years ago for that sort of thing: coming out of left field totally unprovoked (probably 1 too many times). What did she do then? She created a new screen name. She has posted here under several names that I can actually recall. Let's see: chesapeakedad, towtowtwo, mama, and the Littlelady name she uses now. I'm sure there are others. She's been outed quite a few times, and stops posting in the name. She's THAT transparent.
She is a mental case, yes. But she chooses to come here and air all of her dirty laundry and to take out her miserable life's frustrations out on people who come here for all sorts of reasons to socialize. She has a life, so she says. She has a husband, two grown kids, 2 grandchildren and pets. Why does she need to come here and act like a raving lunatic lashing out at people she doesn't even know? You say if she doesn't accept your help - it's all on her - well, it's all been on her, because she has had many people over the years here feel sorry for her and try to help her. She returns to the forums again & again to behave this way. She chooses to behave this way - so the way I see it is - it's all on her when posters who are tired of her shenanigans let her have it. YMMV
I completely agree with everything you said, I just think if everyone ignored her she would leave. She gets off on the attention she receives here, even if it’s all negative. I assume she doesn’t get any attention from her loved ones. It’s pathetic and I hope she eventually gets help. I don’t have the lengthy history of dealing with her that you and others do, but man it would be nice if she just faded away, never to be heard from again.
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Amen!
littlelady
God bless the USA
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I forgot
. Bann met me in June 2012, but she doesn’t know me irl? Oh, Ok. And, it is interesting that she is my biggest fan, and has kept up with my time here. Some of what she said is crap, but whatever. I don’t care. I, also, forgot 
Fun fact: Out of the 16 members that I met at that meet, only 4 still post on this forum, and that includes me. I never went back to a meet. What does that tell, y’all?
I am sure some wonder why I still post here. It is because it is a hoot and a half!
And, also, I like vrai. Go figure. I will explain that. Yeah, vrai banned me for getting into an argument with one of her peeps. So, be it. My point is that I am as strong of a person as she is, and she recognizes that; otherwise, why would she waste her time in responding to me.
Oh, and one more thing. Not only have private PMs become a joke, but the people who claim to have members on ignore, but still respond, are a joke, too. Being hypocritical is not a good place to be. Pick a side, y’all. Y’all can’t have it both ways. Civil War, anyone?
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littlelady
God bless the USA
black dog
Free America
I forgot
Fun fact: Out of the 16 members that I met at that meet, only 4 still post on this forum, and that includes me. I never went back to a meet. What does that tell, y’all?
I am sure some wonder why I still post here. It is because it is a hoot and a half!
And, also, I like vrai. Go figure. I will explain that. Yeah, vrai banned me for getting into an argument with one of her peeps. So, be it. My point is that I am as strong of a person as she is, and she recognizes that; otherwise, why would she waste her time in responding to me.
Oh, and one more thing. Not only have private PMs become a joke, but the people who claim to have members on ignore, but still respond, are a joke, too. Being hypocritical is not a good place to be. Pick a side, y’all. Y’all can’t have it both ways. Civil War, anyone?
She showed up at ONE meet & greet. As far as I know - meeting someone one time, barely even talking to them at an event with probably close to 15 people present (and which may have lasted 2 hours, tops)doesn't mean you know them "in real life".
There is documentation of the tread in the M & G Forum for anyone who cares to go pull it up. 6-29-2012 at Vera's White Sands. :shrug:
I was pre-occupied that week. I didn't care or have any input on who was coming - we just posted as we usually did in the M & G forum. The reason I recall it and what many folks not close to me back then didn't know was my mother had passed the Sunday prior, and that Friday happened to be the day I was to pick up her remains from the funeral home. It was also Foxhound's birthday, and we were going to surprise him, even though he doesn't like a fuss and had said no birthday fuss.
Since my mother's interment ceremony was going to be in Arlington Nat'l Cemetery (at a later time yet to be determined by the gov't) and most of my family was in FL, I wasn't having two ceremonies. Vrai said "just bring mom along with you!"
So that is how we ended up having an impromptu "wake" for my mom before the M & G got started. Vrai offered to bring something for FH's birthday, and she made cupcakes, which was so nice! So, there were many "behind the scenes" things happening that mamakookoo was never privvy to, nor included in. Her involvement in the M & G was that she showed up with husband, introduced around, as is everyone. She sat near the end of the table and chatted with folks there. I don't recall having conversations with her at all, and the next thing I knew, she came over to us to say goodbye as they were departing.
:shrug:
black dog
Free America
She showed up at ONE meet & greet. As far as I know - meeting someone one time, barely even talking to them at an event with probably close to 15 people present (and which may have lasted 2 hours, tops)doesn't mean you know them "in real life".
There is documentation of the tread in the M & G Forum for anyone who cares to go pull it up. 6-29-2012 at Vera's White Sands. :shrug:
I was pre-occupied that week. I didn't care or have any input on who was coming - we just posted as we usually did in the M & G forum. The reason I recall it and what many folks not close to me back then didn't know was my mother had passed the Sunday prior, and that Friday happened to be the day I was to pick up her remains from the funeral home. It was also Foxhound's birthday, and we were going to surprise him, even though he doesn't like a fuss and had said no birthday fuss.
Since my mother's interment ceremony was going to be in Arlington Nat'l Cemetery (at a later time yet to be determined by the gov't) and most of my family was in FL, I wasn't having two ceremonies. Vrai said "just bring mom along with you!"
So, there were many "behind the scenes" things happening that mamakookoo was never privvy to, nor included in. Her involvement in the M & G was that she showed up with husband, introduced around, as is everyone. She sat near the end of the table and chatted with folks there. I don't recall having conversations with her at all, and the next thing I knew, she came over to us to say goodbye as they were departing.
:shrug:
She's a KooKooburro that sees things that aren't there..
That's funny about your mom, my dad is sitting next to the TV waiting for my mom to be put in the box next to him. If you listen carefully I bet he's grumbling " Jesus Christ I'm dead and I'm still waiting on her "
I want to clarify this so nobody gets a
mental picture. Bann's mother had been cremated and her ashes were in a container. It's not like she was laid out on the table or anything. 
Most of the time I'm responding to you to correct your lies, like the two you just told ^^
black dog
Free America
I want to clarify this so nobody gets a
I didn't think she was layed out on a table being used as a human plate for the veggie bar...
My father's ashes/cremated remains were already interred there -since 2002, and we still had to wait until 23 August for my mother's ceremony.
I want to clarify this so nobody gets a
Yes, her container even blended in with the napkin holder and table decor, as I recall. Remember how Vince got all
when I said mom was out in the car and I was going to go out & bring her in?!!! I am not sure how be forgot mom had passed, but because the temps were so high that day he was like 
until we reminded him she was 
:shrug: I'd not wanted to just walk in carrying cremated remains until we had the table, etc., so I had waited until we got situated. :vince:
frequentflier
happy to be living
She showed up at ONE meet & greet. As far as I know - meeting someone one time, barely even talking to them at an event with probably close to 15 people present (and which may have lasted 2 hours, tops)doesn't mean you know them "in real life".
There is documentation of the tread in the M & G Forum for anyone who cares to go pull it up. 6-29-2012 at Vera's White Sands. :shrug:
I was pre-occupied that week. I didn't care or have any input on who was coming - we just posted as we usually did in the M & G forum. The reason I recall it and what many folks not close to me back then didn't know was my mother had passed the Sunday prior, and that Friday happened to be the day I was to pick up her remains from the funeral home. It was also Foxhound's birthday, and we were going to surprise him, even though he doesn't like a fuss and had said no birthday fuss.
Since my mother's interment ceremony was going to be in Arlington Nat'l Cemetery (at a later time yet to be determined by the gov't) and most of my family was in FL, I wasn't having two ceremonies. Vrai said "just bring mom along with you!"
So, there were many "behind the scenes" things happening that mamakookoo was never privvy to, nor included in. Her involvement in the M & G was that she showed up with husband, introduced around, as is everyone. She sat near the end of the table and chatted with folks there. I don't recall having conversations with her at all, and the next thing I knew, she came over to us to say goodbye as they were departing.
:shrug:
Being a business owner and having attended a lot of the (post Jethro's) M&G's, I am going to guess that over the years, I have met 150 to 200 people from the forums. People have come and gone and some friendships have gone by the wayside, some superficial people exited my life that were "convenience friends" (as I am a business owner).
There are a large handful of forum friends I hold close to my heart. And people that I would help in a heartbeat and they would help me as well, if we reached out to each other. We may not see each often but we have a relationship and are friendly nonetheless.
But to say I "know" the 150 to 200 people I have met would be wrong. Meeting someone does NOT mean I KNOW them.
As I have stated before, I think mama whatever-her-name-is is a lonely person and is jealous of many of the people on here and the relationships and friendships they maintain.
frequentflier
happy to be living
"There are a large handful of forum friends I hold close to my heart. And people that I would help in a heartbeat and they would help me as well, if we reached out to each other. We may not see each often but we have a relationship and are friendly nonetheless."
She showed up at ONE meet & greet. As far as I know - meeting someone one time, barely even talking to them at an event with probably close to 15 people present (and which may have lasted 2 hours, tops)doesn't mean you know them "in real life".
There is documentation of the tread in the M & G Forum for anyone who cares to go pull it up. 6-29-2012 at Vera's White Sands. :shrug:
I was pre-occupied that week. I didn't care or have any input on who was coming - we just posted as we usually did in the M & G forum. The reason I recall it and what many folks not close to me back then didn't know was my mother had passed the Sunday prior, and that Friday happened to be the day I was to pick up her remains from the funeral home. It was also Foxhound's birthday, and we were going to surprise him, even though he doesn't like a fuss and had said no birthday fuss.
Since my mother's interment ceremony was going to be in Arlington Nat'l Cemetery (at a later time yet to be determined by the gov't) and most of my family was in FL, I wasn't having two ceremonies. Vrai said "just bring mom along with you!"
So, there were many "behind the scenes" things happening that mamakookoo was never privvy to, nor included in. Her involvement in the M & G was that she showed up with husband, introduced around, as is everyone. She sat near the end of the table and chatted with folks there. I don't recall having conversations with her at all, and the next thing I knew, she came over to us to say goodbye as they were departing.
:shrug:
Didn't she talk on the phone with Wenchy, once, and they were besties after that?