I agree with in totality. One of my aunts is about the most liberal Dems that you've ever met, aside from that she's one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. I just don't follow her on facebook and turn her on when I want to talk. My other aunts husband is the opposite, he can't separate politics from the rest of his life. I agree with him on most subjects, but he doesn't know how to modulate himself to maintain peaceful relationships.
They live on opposite ends of the countries so their overlap is just their continual bickering followed by several weeks of ignoring each other.
See, I think perhaps we are thinking of it differently. You say "politics" and I say "government". Politics is bullshit, but it manifests itself in government, which is very important. The reason we're paying more and earning less is because of government, which came about because of politics. The reason squatters can come live in your house and you can't get them out is because of government. The reason illegal aliens can come live off our tax dollars is because of government.
I don't hate Democrats because of politics, I hate them because of the way they govern. And I loathe the people who put them in a position to govern over me and affect my life negatively. Especially since many of those same people bitch and cry when the government they voted for screws them over, yet they keep voting for it. Or else they lie and pretend the government they voted for that is screwing them over isn't really happening.
And this is why we'll never have change in this country - too many people are complacent, don't care, and keeping the peace is more important to them.
And that's fine. Do you. But I never want to make nice with people who are doing me direct harm, have no intention of stopping, and in fact would like it to be even worse. I'm not about one-sided relationships.
"He's a great guy except for that Holocaust thing...."