TikTokers Split The Internet After Revealing 3 Major Red Flags In Women

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People often choose partners based on attraction. Whether it’s the color of her eyes or his care for the elderly, every person has features others might find appealing. Equally important, each of us has flaws and weaknesses, too. That is why evaluating both sides of the coin is important when looking for the happily ever after.

A famous personal coach, writer, and content creator, David De Las Morenas, and his wife Julia discussed the less romanticized characteristics of a partner on TikTok. In a video that went viral, they shared insight on three things they considered red flags in women and expanded on how they can affect a couple’s relationship. After attracting over 700k views, the video sparked a buzz online and got people falling into two camps about it.

TikTokers singled out three things they consider red flags in women in a video that went viral



“Number one: She fails to thank you or show you any type of gratitude”

“Number two: She has male friends”

“Aside from some very rare scenarios when a guy and a girl are talking, it is not platonic.”
“And even if she’s not interested in him, he’s probably interested in her and then she likes having that validation. The point is, if a girl has male friends that she regularly sees or even just texts with, that’s the type of girl who’s always gonna have one foot out the door in a relationship.”

“Number three: She manipulates you in small ways”





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“She Manipulates You In Small Ways”: TikTokers Split The Internet After Revealing 3 Major Red Flags In Women

A personal coach and content creator shared insight on three things he deemed red flags in women and expanded on how they can affect a couple’s relationship.
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SamSpade

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It's not the mere EXISTENCE of male friends. I've been good with that, especially if there's no evidence of a "thing" happening and if that friend is married, involved with someone else, gay, a LOT older and so on. Basically, he poses zero threat to the relationship.

At least TWICE I was a little TOO accommodating for a male friend - who happened to be either a former boyfriend or a male who is CLEARLY trying to get her personally interested in him. I even ignored advice of friends saying, dude, kinda obvious.

Then again - there's the old saying that she can't be stolen from you if she doesn't want to go.

More than the *existence* of male friends is a bigger red flag, to me. The ABSENCE of female friends. THAT to me is a red flag that says she may either be too anti-social for me or just hard to get along with, as it's been my observation that women with no female friends and only male friends are used to the laid back, it's ok, generally non-argumentative or confrontational relationship women have with guys who are just friends. I kniew one woman for many years - had no female friends - said they were too hard to get along with.
 
Clem72

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SamSpade said:
At least TWICE I was a little TOO accommodating for a male friend - who happened to be either a former boyfriend or a male who is CLEARLY trying to get her personally interested in him. I even ignored advice of friends saying, dude, kinda obvious.

Then again - there's the old saying that she can't be stolen from you if she doesn't want to go.
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Sounds like that was their point, if she has a close male friend that may be interested in her then she has "options" when/if she gets upset with you that could develop into something more before you have a chance to repair your relationship.
 
SamSpade

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Clem72 said:
Sounds like that was their point, if she has a close male friend that may be interested in her then she has "options" when/if she gets upset with you that could develop into something more before you have a chance to repair your relationship.
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I think an astute person would be able to tell if their significant other was cultivating a "Plan B".
 
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DaSDGuy

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My SO has friends of both normal genders. I wouldn't even think about trying to change that because I don't have the right to dictate who can or can't be around. We've kept each other happy for almost 40 years.
I for one give absolutely zero credence to anything spouted on a Chinese app.
 
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