Originally posted by Dixie
Let's see supposedly you're an engineer and the majority of the ones I work with are fairly intelligent so you must be the exception to the rule. My son is mentally retarded and guess what it's through no fault of his own. I do admire a man and I use that term loosely with a big vocabulary. Poor choice of words Sleuth 14, speaks sadly for you.
Good Lord...
First off... I never claimed to be PC.
Second... uncork your azz and blow out a sense of humor.
Third and Finally... I have never said an ill word about the mentally challenged. And I have never claimed that they brought it upon themselves. I have compassion and empathy for the mentally challenged, and I will be the first to stand up and speak out when I feel they are abused or taken advantage of. I myself have relatives who were born with mental disabilities, including Downs Syndrome, ADHD, and a couple others. I have never in my adult life referred to someone with a mental disability as a retard, and have always in my adult life used the term "retard" or "tard" to describe someone who acts stupidly or performs stupid acts, when they would otherwise seemingly be capable of normal and reasonable thought processes. Is it the 'appropriate' use by the definition of the word? No. Is it humorous? Yes. Just ask ninety percent of the members on this board or any other board (except for maybe the Democratic Underground). Seems to me that you're the one who is so oversensitive about your son that you want to scream out and claim everyone else is out to demean him.