To send people, either volunteers or conscripts into any life threatening situation, weighs heavily on any commander, at every level. To lose a subordinate takes its toll. It's our responsibility as commanders to ensure their safety as best we can. One can hope everyone comes home safely but that isn't always the case. Writing letters to family members, to let them know their loved one didn't die needlessly or carelessly is a terrible responsibility. We always don't agree why we've been sent to conflict, we just do the best we can to accomplish the mission and get home in one piece, both physically and mentally.
The deaths in Iraq are approaching 4,000. A terrible number to be sure. Each death is devastating to the loved ones of that person. These were people, our relatives, friends or neighbors, not statistics to be used to further some political agenda.
It irks me when folks are against a war/conflict because they disagree on the politics of the President. I wasn't a forumite here during the Kosovo conflict. Were the same folks running death tolls and complaining then? Our country is only racist, genocidal, etc during a Republican administration?
We have a wonderful country, not perfect by any means, but the best around imho. As a country, we've been in wars which were fubar. But let's look at what our nation accomplished. WWI - total screwup after the war which led to WWII. WWII, we won and followed up with the Marshall Plan. Even with the Soviet Union as strong as we, which economic system prevailed? Europe is very strong economically and one only has to compare the two Germanies to see the dramatic difference. We reformed the government of Japan and Korea. Look at those countries now. We pulled out of Vietnam prematurely, due to the fifth column led by Cronkite and the socialists on campus. Look at the region now.
Those who don't learn from history are bound to repeat it. Those who believe we as a country are better off emulating another social system should perhaps live under that system for a year and come back and report how they found utopia. Methinks it wouldn't take a year for them to come crawling back to the country they revile.
/rant off