Wanted to say.......

[Christy]

yeah it's happening to me too! First I thought someone, not naming any names sent Romance over the edge and she went on a posting frenzy! It's just a glitch in the system. Or maybe it's a sign!!!! Did you know if you spent a day with a child you wouldn't consider them as baggage? hmmmmm?

Actually Romance, I've spent a day with some children that weren't what I'd consider baggage, more like spawns of Satan! The Demon Seed! Damians! Prince of F#$king Darkness! Thank God they weren't my "baggage"!

 

[tater]

Re: lol

Originally posted by sgtsprout
well tater...they are more like rounds. But the key is to figure out how much time in between rounds. Or per round.

okey doke, thanks. I was just wondering because at the next break in the action, I want to find the concession stand to get a t-shirt, one of the big styrofoam hands, a beer, and a big soft pretzel (w/ mustard).

P.S.- later on I will head over to BCHBNS' house and try to wrestle the spoon away from her that she's been using to stir the s#*tpot. Oops......don't tell her I said that (or I'll NEVER get that coveted back-door pass)

 

[Christy]

And Sarge I didn't say you were "trying to keep her on the side", you said that ole boy! My meaning was, you don't want to totally cut her out in case the grass isn't greener on the single side of life.

 

[romance]

Another thing

How can anyone sit there and think of a child as baggage??? Spend a day with one!! They are little people so to speak, with WOW feelings, emotions, and aheart that breaks the same as everyone elses does. If you see a child as baggage how can you say you have a heart and soul? Spend a day or some time witha kid and see if you can still look them as baggage and something you couldnt care for.....

 

[sgtsprout]

GO EAGLES

Down with the Cowgirls. lol hehehee

And no offense taken to anything that was said.
And christy I got ya. I took it as me trying to keep her on the side. But heck its all golden.

 

[SxyPrincess]

Re: In my oh so humble opinion

Originally posted by Christy
Sarges "we're still friends" = I don't want to look the total ass, and hmmm, don't wanna burn all my bridges in case something better doesn't come along.

Romance "we're still friends" = Maybe just maybe, if I'm really really nice and oh so loyal, he'll see how wonderful I am and want me back. Oh please oh please oh please.

Christy,

Your the best!

 

[SxyPrincess]

Oops, almost forgot

 

[romance]

No I dont think shes right. After you break up someone it is possible to still be freinds without having those ideas. It oesnt mean Im hoping for him to come back and it doesnt mean he wants to keep me around for "in case of" type thing. Jaime and I were friends to begin with. We talked through my break up with my sons father and his break up with Nat. We dont hate each other so why should we not be friends just cause we had a relationship. I think thats being narrow minded.

 

[bknarw]

It's NOT narrow minded, it's RIDICULOUS!

I've never been "friends" with an ex, and don't intend to. NO SUCH THING!
Relationships don't go backwards, they progress. I'm sure there are isolated instances where people have broken up and become friends, but to expect it is absurd.
Personally, in every case, my only wish would have been that I would never have to even see that person again.
Some women toss out the "can we still be friends?" thing, but I think they're delusional to think so. I always tell them no.

 

[vraiblonde]

I've always remained friendly with my exes but not friends. Mostly because they weren't good friends to start with - just a guy to date - so no need to perpetuate a relationship that was never there. That's another reason why I never got romantically involved with my guy pals - when the breakup hits, you not only lose your lover but you lose your best friend, too. My best pal is a stud muffin and nobody could figure out why we never did the bop - it was because our relationship was so perfect neither of us wanted to risk it.

 

[bknarw]

Not only that but...

Originally posted by cariblue


Only if you're Jerry and Elaine...oh wait, that's not real life is it

In cases where I've broken up with a woman, my feeling has been: "What, are you crazy? This relationship has put me in a position where I can't STAND you, and you wanna still be friends?"
And, in cases where they've broken up with me (this is usually the case), I say "What, are you crazy? You just screwed me royally and now you want me to be your FRIEND?"
Either way, it's a no-go.

As I said to the last girl, and I forget where I heard it, you don't go out, buy a dog, love it, care for it, feed it, and then one day, just say "I'm sorry, but I need my space; I don't want you to be my dog any more."
We often give more consideration to pets than we do lovers.

 

[sgtsprout]

well

ya know though...i wouldn't call it narrowminded. Its more narrowminded thinking we can't be friends.

I can be. I have NO problem doing that. Women who say burned me, yes theres no way I could be friends with. But I've remained friends with some we'll say.

But whatever happened happens

 

[Pete]

: why could I have not been here for this

 

[Pete]

Originally posted by kwillia
Not long after... moved to WVA together....