Tonio said:
As I said, I have some disagreements with the group's doctrine. I don't believe Hell exists and I don't believe that all pleasure is sinful. Plus, isn't it ludicrious to suggest that homosexuality and pornography inevitably lead to murder?
Touche. That would be over the top, for me. How that makes it "right-wing", I couldn't say.
You have a good point about church being one way for people to turn their lives around. I believe that emotionally mature adults don't (or shouldn't) need fear of punishment to keep them out of trouble. Fear doesn't help people learn to make good moral choices. Instead, it teaches them to please others. It teaches them that they are not in control of their own lives. I see that as not much different from the dependency that welfare promotes.
I partly agree. Fear of getting *FIRED* has a lot to do with why people don't take four hour lunches, leave early, shirk their duties and insult the boss. Emotionally mature people can still be SOB's who think the world owes them. *Fear* keeps me on my toes when I use a chain-saw or table-saw. Fear of failure keeps me alert on the roadway especially when I have passengers in the car. I don't agree that use of fear is necessarily always inappropriate. The Bible says that fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom. That's right - you want to be wise, *start* there. It doesn't end there, just as maturity doesn't end with being afraid of your parents, either. But it's important to realize who is in charge.
That being said, it is comforting to know that God not only loves you - he actually *likes* you. Seems funny, but it's a big deal to me. (I always liked Morgan Freeman's 'God' in 'Bruce Almighty'). Did you ever appreciate a friend, because, with all your foibles, with all your worst bits hanging out - they STILL want to be with you at the end of the day? That's how we're supposed to answer to the grace of God. It's like gratitude.
The fundie church I used to go to used to place this BIG guilt trip on its members - that Jesus suffered on the cross for you. Yes - he did. Well damn, if you hadn't been so SINFUL - he might not have to suffer so! Oh my! Don't you see how gross your sins are! Oh how wretched I am! And we were subjected to week after week of breast-beating and mea culpas of how awful we were - a good sermon told us how bad we were.
Ridiculous. Jesus on the cross is NOT about how BAD *I* am - it's about how *wonderful* he is. My sins didn't force him on the cross - he didn't go kicking and screaming. He went there on his own. He did it on purpose and he would have done it all just for me. That's what makes it wonderful, and not horrible.