My service went mostly unrecognized, as I'm sure has happened with many others, but I have a few notable ones that I don't choose to publicize. I never seriously considered claiming an award I didn't earn. There are those who will rape and pillage and pervert anything, and we who have served in the military have met their kind before, especially in our adversaries' ranks, but also, sadly, in our own. The award and the ribbon or medal that comes with it are tokens of esteem from a grateful Chain of Command, who by extension express the gratitude of the Nation. It is in that sense (in many cases) that the things mean anything to us. For some twit to claim the decoration without cause is an irritant, but it disgraces none of us a whit. The message we received with the decoration is not changed by the idiots who want to claim the decoration.
If you bled on the field or the shoreline or the deckplate of honor, if you gave what you had to do the job, if you held in your arms the mate you held dear, if you took the fire and the stress and the agony, no time during the event was spent dreaming of your award. You honestly gave what you honestly gave. What you received in return is emblematic of a debt owed to you for your sacrifice, but there is no recompense man can give that will pay you back for what you gave. A scrap of ribbon, a bit of metal, a plaque or a picture, and some high-sounding words, are still empty compared to the fullness of what you gave.
Therefore the interloper, the fraud, who would claim that same award, is to be pitied and disdained, but he detracts nothing from what you have so very selflessly given and earned.