I’m trying to avoid getting ugly about this. You don’t even know me, yet you assume you know that I lack responsibility. You have no clue what my experiences are yet you think I’m blame shifting. You assume I have made no effort to make whatever church I was a member better. You assume I justify my sin and haven’t repented. You assume I don’t thank God for my life and the opportunities He’s given me. You assume I have a rebellious heart based on very few exchanges we’ve had.
I'm fine with folks disagreeing with me. I'm not fine with people, that don't even know me, trying to tell me who I am.
Hey cool down and look at what you wrote.
I am only going on what you told me.
Your right I don’t know your experience you haven’t shared, but in all honesty it’s irrelevant, it doesn’t matter it’s in the past.
The fact is Christians have a Biblical mandate, and you volunteered that you’re not following it. That is sin, and scripture says that if you continue in sin your of the devil.
In your post you did blame shift, you said that if I was going to mention your lack of obedience and then you went on to attack the church. Blame shifting is a lack of taking responsibility for your sin, I am not talking about your work ethic, but how your handeling your lack of obedience to the Lords commands and using and unknow reason to justify it!
Am not picking on you, or trying to be mean, not at all.
I am trying to get you to think about things. If you think I am coming off as holier than thou, than your not reading me correctly. I am trying to tell you I am concerned about you.
Scripture also says:
1 Brethren, even if anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; each one looking to yourself, so that you too will not be tempted. 2 Bear one another’s burdens, and thereby fulfill the law of Christ.
I am giving you the benefit of a doubt you are a brother! John Calvin would not have.
The correct response for a Christian is not to get ugly, but to examine yourself and see if you are in the truth. Do you think I lied when I referred to what scripture says?
For all I know you could be a bitter Roman Catholic, as usually they turn from Christ altogether because of the hypocrisies of the church.
I made the comment that your not in a church NOW working to make it better, again the past is just that, in the past and if your a believer your called to forgive and move on.
If you repented, on not obeying the Lords commands, than you would be obeying Him now and would be in a fellowship. Repentance requires turning from your sin.
So take a deep breath, relax, than read
what you said.
You can get mad, but its not going to do either one of us any good. Perhaps there is something to be learned!
Or not, get mad, call be an idiot and get and stay all bent out of shape.
A real church is a beautiful thing and its a blessing to be a part of it, and the fellowship is sweet, and folks love one another. That sure beats sitting on the outside lobbing stones at it!
Ps: If you want to be known, PM me. Id be happy to meet and talk in person, the idea is to get you restored, where you can be blessed and bless others.