What did you expect?

Larry Gude

Strung Out
does that mean they all aren`t Taxi drivers? inside joke :killingme

betcha i can prove that Theory. 1 July 2010 ring a bell??? that thread may b gone, but????????????????? maybe BWs & B? :whistle:

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Would you mind writing something for a time capsule? We're gonna shoot it into space and, when some hostile alien force finds it and reads it, they are gonna hightail it for another galaxy and leave us the hell alone.

:buddies:
 

lnmarsh

Love * Luck * Faith
Would you mind writing something for a time capsule? We're gonna shoot it into space and, when some hostile alien force finds it and reads it, they are gonna hightail it for another galaxy and leave us the hell alone.

:buddies:

:killingme

A woman I know married a man with two young children from a previous marriage. Shortly after they married, she insisted they move back to her home town to be closer to her family - she is from CA and he is from MD.

Fast-forward 20 years.

Now the man has no real relationship with his children, and the woman is dismayed by this. She doesn't understand why they don't come visit, or why they don't call on his birthday.

Comments?

Well… sounds to me that 20 years ago the new wifey may have not only wanted to move closer to her family, but also wanted her new hubby FAR AWAY from his children and former wife. If that is the case, she got what she wanted and now in hindsight feels bad. Just my take on it.

It is, however, ultimately the father’s fault for not staying in touch with his children.
 

Larry Gude

Strung Out
:killingme



Well… sounds to me that 20 years ago the new wifey may have not only wanted to move closer to her family, but also wanted her new hubby FAR AWAY from his children and former wife. If that is the case, she got what she wanted and now in hindsight feels bad. Just my take on it.

It is, however, ultimately the father’s fault for not staying in touch with his children.

What if the custodian mom made it really hard for him to keep up with the kids and turned the kids against him?


:popcorn:
 

lnmarsh

Love * Luck * Faith
What if the custodian mom made it really hard for him to keep up with the kids and turned the kids against him?


:popcorn:

You have an excellent point... I honestly hadnt thought about that one. The biological Mom could have made it hell for him to see the kids. But... but they are/were still his kids... as long as the courts hadnt decided against it, he had every legal right to see them and the Mom really couldnt have truly stopped him. Basically, even if the Mom made it hard on him, if he wanted to see his kids bad enough he would have found a way.
 

Larry Gude

Strung Out
That was a thought I had. Why does the guy have to be the bad guy :shrug:

I know the woman she knows and know, fact certain, that the mom bent over backwards and was incredibly positive about the dad AND step mom. So, in this case, it's all on the pop as far as I am concerned.

I just asked to point out how everyone in the world always assumes it's the guys fault. :lol:


:evil:
 

Larry Gude

Strung Out
You have an excellent point... I honestly hadnt thought about that one. The biological Mom could have made it hell for him to see the kids. But... but they are/were still his kids... as long as the courts hadnt decided against it, he had every legal right to see them and the Mom really couldnt have truly stopped him. Basically, even if the Mom made it hard on him, if he wanted to see his kids bad enough he would have found a way.

"Romo, I thought I had a Dr. Griswald?"


You name that movie and I will consider you an adult! :buddies:
 

lnmarsh

Love * Luck * Faith
"Romo, I thought I had a Dr. Griswald?"


You name that movie and I will consider you an adult! :buddies:

:twitch: Oh man... wasnt Kevin whatshisface and Cheech in it?

...Or am I way off?


If Im wrong Im deleting this post and pretending like it never happened :lmao:
 

doubtfull24

New Member
It's the dad's fault. He is a grown man yes she played a part in it but it all comes back to him!They are his kids not hers.I know because I've gone threw this with my own dad and have basically had a non existent relationship with my dad and haven't in 15 years his choice not mine I've tried he hasn't and I'm his only child. I LOVE my dad always have ALWAYS will but he is NOT the dad I knew the first 12 years of my life.The dad I looked up to and respected .He chose HIS wants and HIS needs over me...And till this day he still puts HIS wants and HIS needs first. After not seeing my dad but 1 visit in 13 years face to face he had a chance to spend time with me and his grandson but all he wanted to do was go deer hunting.Since where he lives now he is not able to....

Being a mom now I could never do to my son what he has done to me.I could never let my son question if I loved him.Or make him feel like he didn't matter to me.
 
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