That was kind of an inside joke, like men don't care the way their hair looks. Well, some of us at least TRY to be presentable. Wifey used to love the fact that I did 99% of all the cooking in our household. She came from a 2 income household with a LOT of "prepared" foods.
Currently - my wife is UNABLE to move about and cook breakfast, lunch and dinner, so I've been the main cook for over a month now.
Although I cooked for myself for over 25 years - I am easy to please, so good cooking isn't in my wheelhouse.
I actually thought I was pretty good, until I cooked for my wife while we dated - then, I'd find she'd sometimes be at my house before I got home, cooking. I thought she was being kind, but I realized later she hated the way I cook.
I've improved - and the kids have complained little - but everyone is anxious for us to get back to her cooking.
My youngest says I'm the best "cooker" in the world, but mostly because I make a few things she really likes. My pork lo mein is a little sweeter and spicier than you get in Chinese takeout.