what would you do?

terbear1225

Well-Known Member
grammy (MIL) put 6week old down for a nap on his tummy. would you go in and roll him over or leave him be?
 

BadGirl

I am so very blessed
Is he happy? Then leave him be.

If he's awake and unhappy, then turn him over.

See....wasn't that easy?
 

StrawberryGal

Sweet and Innocent
Tell your MIL that putting a baby on a tummy is a :nono:. Show her the article from the website about SIDS risks.

I would roll him over unless your baby is the one that keep rolling back on his tummy. If that's the case, leave him to be. If not, roll him back on his back.
 

BadGirl

I am so very blessed
Tell your MIL that putting a baby on a tummy is a :nono:. Show her the article from the website about SIDS risks.

I would roll him over unless your baby is the one that keep rolling back on his tummy. If that's the case, leave him to be. If not, roll him back on his back.
Good Lawd!

One day, you're a horrible mother if you lay your kid on his tummy. The next day, you're a horrible mother if you lay your kid on his back. "Rules" change all of the time. These experts come up with new policy and guidelines every day of the week.

If a baby is content on his tummy, and there are no soft articles (blankets, toys, stuffed animals, etc.) to get in the way of his breathing, then just leave him be.

You'll drive yourself crazy if you try to follow every single rule put out to the public.
 

vbailey

vbailey
When my grandson was born ( 10 weeks old now ) they told my daughter in the hospital NOT to put him down to sleep on his tummy. I was there when they told her that, they even showed her how she could lay him on his side with his head raise up if he was not happy sleeping on his back. I would ask your baby doctor, do not take a chance with your child.
 

nicole_M

New Member
Good Lawd!

One day, you're a horrible mother if you lay your kid on his tummy. The next day, you're a horrible mother if you lay your kid on his back. "Rules" change all of the time. These experts come up with new policy and guidelines every day of the week.

If a baby is content on his tummy, and there are no soft articles (blankets, toys, stuffed animals, etc.) to get in the way of his breathing, then just leave him be.

You'll drive yourself crazy if you try to follow every single rule put out to the public.

:yeahthat: I :heart: you BG!

All 3 of my kids were/are tummy sleepers...
 

lovinmaryland

Well-Known Member
Good Lawd!

One day, you're a horrible mother if you lay your kid on his tummy. The next day, you're a horrible mother if you lay your kid on his back. "Rules" change all of the time. These experts come up with new policy and guidelines every day of the week.

If a baby is content on his tummy, and there are no soft articles (blankets, toys, stuffed animals, etc.) to get in the way of his breathing, then just leave him be.

You'll drive yourself crazy if you try to follow every single rule put out to the public.

Exactly... I wish they would explain to me how me putting my child on his tummy to sleep is bad but if the baby rolls over on its tummy himself then it is ok :confused:
 

mAlice

professional daydreamer
Exactly... I wish they would explain to me how me putting my child on his tummy to sleep is bad but if the baby rolls over on its tummy himself then it is ok :confused:

The reasoning behind that is if the baby is strong enough roll himself over onto his tummy, he can roll himself over onto his back if he's having difficulty breathing.
 

Cowgirl

Well-Known Member
Exactly... I wish they would explain to me how me putting my child on his tummy to sleep is bad but if the baby rolls over on its tummy himself then it is ok :confused:

I'm guessing because if the baby can roll over by itself, it will roll over if it starts to smother. :shrug: Just a guess. :shrug:
 

morningbell

hmmmmmm
Tell your MIL that putting a baby on a tummy is a :nono:. Show her the article from the website about SIDS risks.

I would roll him over unless your baby is the one that keep rolling back on his tummy. If that's the case, leave him to be. If not, roll him back on his back.

:yeahthat:

My baby, my rules. Don't like it? You'll never be left alone with your grandchild. Hubby WILL back me up.
 

vbailey

vbailey
:yeahthat:

My baby, my rules. Don't like it? You'll never be left alone with your grandchild. Hubby WILL back me up.

My daughter trust me enough to let me take my grandson to church with us twice now. It would break my heart if she talked to me like that or even thought I would do something to hurt my grandson. I love him as if I had given birth to him myself. But I am concerned about who will be taking care of him when she returns to work. I believe it will be his other Grandmother that is not working right now and I am OK with that.
 

citysherry

I Need a Beer
grammy (MIL) put 6week old down for a nap on his tummy. would you go in and roll him over or leave him be?

Act in the best interest of your child - go and roll him over. Now, with that having been said, NEVER, EVER WALK ON EGG SHELLS IN YOUR OWN HOME!
 

hotmomma

mmmmhmmmmm
When your MIL raised her kids it was probably correct to let them sleep on their tummy. Things have changed and she may not even be aware of it. I don't see what the big deal is just telling her. She will never know unless you tell her.
 

vbailey

vbailey
When my daughter ( now 24 ) was born she was put down on her tummy or side to sleep. When my son ( now 12 ) was born they told me at the hospital not to lay him down to sleep on his tummy. Things have changed.
 

poster

New Member
Is he happy? Then leave him be.

If he's awake and unhappy, then turn him over.

See....wasn't that easy?

Agreed.

If it REALY bothers you turn him over and ask her to do the same in the future.

Very soon it won't matter how he lays, he'll turn over when he wants.
My daughter laid on her tummy, she wouldn't sleep otherwise.
 
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