Even when married, I still went on lunch time dates with co-workers - male and female - as did my husband. What's wrong with that? Sounds like your other half was too insecure.Originally posted by Spud
A date is a wonderful thing, However a Date takes on all new meaning once one is married. Let me give you an example!
Ya know all those co-worker lunches you used to enjoy? Married *History* Suddenly these are viewed as dates!
You shouldn't NEED those late night channels anymore when you're married. Again, a person's insecurity comes into play. Those "late night" channels can be STIMULATING for both, ya know?Ya know your favorite late night channel? Married *History* Suddenly this becomes some quasi form of cheating!
Now honestly - did you ever go to those places for anything OTHER than hoping to get laid?Last but not least, remember those luscious nights at your favorite adult lounge? Married *History*
Sounds like a bit of bitterness on your part.So enjoy your datingdom while it exisists in reality! Everything takes on new life when you take the walk!
If you wanted things not to change, which is what I read in your post, then you weren't ready for it and probably shouldn't have gotten married.
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