I don't want my son drugged to help him focus; I want exercises and training ideas. Does anyone have experience with this?
My own son has a learning disability, but he was born with it, and there are discernible features that can be measured to verify.
But I want to address the "drugged" thing - you wouldn't say a diabetic was "drugged" with insulin or an asthmatic was "drugged" with his inhaler.
I realize there's a belief that say, ADHD kids must be "stupefied" so they can learn, but that is not what is happening in their brain at all. For many of these kids,
there's an imbalance of neurotransmitters in the brain - too much on one side, not enough on the other. In their NATURAL state, they are what most of us would consider "drugged". Try to imagine being in a caffeine rush all day long, and it does NOT go away. The medications most commonly prescribed are actually *stimulants* but they
relieve this constant over-stimulation.
One adult with my son's disability described his normal day before medication as being in a very loud room where he could feel every inch of clothing on his body, right down to the ribbing on his socks. The medication just turned it off. For him it was as much RELIEF as pain medication can be for the rest of us.
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I'd start with his doctor. For some disabilities, there are visible markers or simple means of testing for it - I don't know if your son is one of these. Mine was, and most doctors familiar with his could tell right away, when the average person could not.
Educate yourself once you learn more about his disability. There may be as in my son's case, ways to adjust his diet to make it easier for him to learn. I joined a Yahoo group that told me of local experts and resources, connected me with other parents and adults who had the same disability.