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ItalianScallion

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get4real said:
To be honest, I know i'm fun and nice and all that good stuff but i'm a single mom and guys act like I have the plague when they find out I have kids. It's pretty depressing.:shrug: What's a girl to do?
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You might be going into it with the wrong motives. I'm just looking for a nice friendship and nothing more to start with. I do not look any deeper in the beginning. Let's have lunch and talk for a while and if it ends there, so be it. If not, then let's enjoy it for as long as it lasts. Your kids have no effect on me having lunch with you as a new friend. Bring em if you want. Too many people think it has to ALL happen on the first meeting. :yahoo:
 
get4real

get4real

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Don't get me wrong, I'm not on here looking for someone. I am just voiceing my experiences of the guys in this area. I'm sure there are nice responsible guys out there. I just haven't run into any. I'm still young, I have time.
 
Beta84

Beta84

They're out to get us
ItalianScallion said:
You might be going into it with the wrong motives. I'm just looking for a nice friendship and nothing more to start with. I do not look any deeper in the beginning. Let's have lunch and talk for a while and if it ends there, so be it. If not, then let's enjoy it for as long as it lasts. Your kids have no effect on me having lunch with you as a new friend. Bring em if you want. Too many people think it has to ALL happen on the first meeting. :yahoo:
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can't people at least do the date asking out in PMs after they've spoken for a little while? do either of you know anything about each other besides you're single? :jameo:
 
Beta84

Beta84

They're out to get us
get4real said:
Don't get me wrong, I'm not on here looking for someone. I am just voiceing my experiences of the guys in this area. I'm sure there are nice responsible guys out there. I just haven't run into any. I'm still young, I have time.
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The nice responsible guys hate the Skins. You're DOOMED! :evil:

Just kidding :smile:
 
get4real

get4real

U-WISHHH
ItalianScallion said:
You might be going into it with the wrong motives. I'm just looking for a nice friendship and nothing more to start with. I do not look any deeper in the beginning. Let's have lunch and talk for a while and if it ends there, so be it. If not, then let's enjoy it for as long as it lasts. Your kids have no effect on me having lunch with you as a new friend. Bring em if you want. Too many people think it has to ALL happen on the first meeting. :yahoo:
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I don't think it has to happen that soon. I don't go out manhunting. I go out to have a good time and get approached by a$$holes.

I think I an a$$hole magnet coming out of my a$$.:yikes:
 
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

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get4real said:
Don't get me wrong, I'm not on here looking for someone. I am just voiceing my experiences of the guys in this area. I'm sure there are nice responsible guys out there. I just haven't run into any. I'm still young, I have time.
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How old are you?

Beta84 said:
can't people at least do the date asking out in PMs after they've spoken for a little while? do either of you know anything about each other besides you're single? :jameo:
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Well, I have to agree with IS that you can really go out to lunch with anyone and if you have nothing in common, so be it, it ends there...
but i'm not a huge fan of hooking up on the web. :shrug:

withrespect said:
How about them COWBOYS!!!!:popcorn::yahoo:
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:frown: and you had so much going for you :ohwell: :lol:

get4real said:
Skins are doing good this year. I'm gonna take it while it lasts.
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:confused:
I don't think we've been watching the same team. :lol:
 
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Gtmustang88

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get4real said:
To be honest, I know i'm fun and nice and all that good stuff but i'm a single mom and guys act like I have the plague when they find out I have kids. It's pretty depressing.:shrug: What's a girl to do?
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I can understand that. I would not be with someone who had kids that weren't mine. But then again I am young and definitely not ready for a family. I wouldn't mind them as a friend though. Good luck to you.:buddies:
 
get4real

get4real

U-WISHHH
Gtmustang88 said:
I can understand that. I would not be with someone who had kids that weren't mine. But then again I am young and definitely not ready for a family. I wouldn't mind them as a friend though. Good luck to you.:buddies:
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I think it's a litte close minded to say you won't date someone that has kids just for that reason. I know phenomenal women with kids that are single.
 
Beta84

Beta84

They're out to get us
pcjohnnyb said:
How old are you?


Well, I have to agree with IS that you can really go out to lunch with anyone and if you have nothing in common, so be it, it ends there...
but i'm not a huge fan of hooking up on the web. :shrug:


:frown: and you had so much going for you :ohwell: :lol:



:confused:
I don't think we've been watching the same team. :lol:
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yeah but what if one of them is 20 and the other is 52? What if one lives in the northern part of charles or calvert and the other lives in Ridge? So many different things, might as well at least chat a little bit in PMs first before asking someone out :shrug:

The Skins are 7-5 aren't they? That's not so bad. Same as the Fins!
 
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

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get4real said:
I think it's a litte close minded to say you won't date someone that has kids just for that reason. I know phenomenal women with kids that are single.
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Well, it IS understandable though, because not everyone is ready for kids.
It isn't saying you aren't a fabulous woman, it just means he isn't ready for that in his life :shrug:

get4real said:
compared to the previous years we are doing good. It's not great but ok
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Beta84 said:
yeah but what if one of them is 20 and the other is 52? What if one lives in the northern part of charles or calvert and the other lives in Ridge? So many different things, might as well at least chat a little bit in PMs first before asking someone out :shrug:

The Skins are 7-5 aren't they? That's not so bad. Same as the Fins!
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Good point on the distance thing and such...
and in regards to the Skins, maybe it has just been that in the more recent games it hasn't really even felt like they DESERVED a championship. They didn't appear to be as together as they have the capability to be. It is a shame, but hopefully they can pull together in the coming games and make something of the season :yahoo:
 
DEEKAYPEE8569

DEEKAYPEE8569

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get4real said:
To be honest, I know i'm fun and nice and all that good stuff but i'm a single mom and guys act like I have the plague when they find out I have kids. It's pretty depressing.:shrug: What's a girl to do?
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Just my opinion here, but the kids come first. When it's Mommy's turn, just put it all on the table (no pun intended); 'We're a package deal.'

If that doesn't work, he wasn't worth your time or effort.
 
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