Chain729
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What? You don't want the gift that keeps on giving? :shrug:
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What? You don't want the gift that keeps on giving? :shrug:
LadyWolf
New Member
Hello all,
This is a hard question to ask without sounding somewhat desperate... but where in the hell can I meet a decent man around here. I am beginning to feel mildly discouraged because it seems like every man I meet around here is not worth catching feelings for....either they are really handsome, but cocky about it; really nice, but too feminine; "intimidated by me"; or have so much drama that I cant see them fitting me into the mess.I just dont know where to meet someone decent, its not like you can really find anyone in a bar who is looking to meet a woman for relationship purposes. I am not trying to complain, and I am not saying that I havent met nice people, I guess I am just looking for a nice guy to spend some time with that doesnt have a baby's mama that will put a bounty out for me if I start dating her "man".
help please.
That is the million dollar question we've all been wondering!!! Truth is, I don't know. I tried going on a few of the free dating sites. One is called "PlentyofFish". Somehow I just wasn't into it. I just wasn't feeling it. It will happen when it's supposed to happen I guess. I got a few bites on there but just wasn't all that interested in it. To me, it's just a lot of work and when you meet someone, it should be natural. On-line dating to me isn't natural. Your forcing something that shouldn't be forced. Be prepared that there are many eligible men that have children and you should probably be open to the idea. However, you will learn to what extent this involves and whether you want to continue on with the relationship. Hang in there, don't get discouraged, stop looking so hard, and just chill. It will happen all in due time!!!
misshelper
New Member
Sheetz...Wal-fart parking lot...Checkers....
Chain729
CageKicker Extraordinaire
She asked where to find men, not druken bums that live in tents in the woods.
Beta84
They're out to get us
the dating websites are a pain...half the people on them are locals that are just stalking everyone and seeing if they know anyone registering for the website. i've heard it works, on occasion, but for the most part there aren't enough local people for it to be worthwhile. more than likely you'd end up meeting people in annapolis, DC, or baltimore.
yeah i don't hang out at any of those places! 
i haven't looked around...is there any sort of singles thing setup on this website? I know when i started working here, this is the website my company pointed me toward. If enough people are being pointed in this direction, maybe they should try getting a singles mingling thing setup. Just a thought, but i'm sure most of you will laugh about that :shrug:
and no i don't think people randomly posting in here is a good way of setting that up
Chain729
CageKicker Extraordinaire
Ironically, that's how I re-met
In all honesty, it's like anywhere else- bars, work, walmart...- you always have to dig through the rocks to find the diamonds. Online, you can get a feel for someone's potential faster and easier than in IRL.
i haven't looked around...is there any sort of singles thing setup on this website? I know when i started working here, this is the website my company pointed me toward. If enough people are being pointed in this direction, maybe they should try getting a singles mingling thing setup. Just a thought, but i'm sure most of you will laugh about that :shrug:
and no i don't think people randomly posting in here is a good way of setting that up
Good luck with these knuckleheads taking anything on here seriously.
GypsyQueen
I'MnotSICKbutI'MnotWELL!
Ironically, that's how I re-met
In all honesty, it's like anywhere else- bars, work, walmart...- you always have to dig through the rocks to find the diamonds. Online, you can get a feel for someone's potential faster and easier than in IRL.
Hmmm...I dont think i agree with that last statement. People can be anybody they want to be on the internet. Because really, im a pot-bellied hill billy with chest hair like a bear and smells like 2 year old egg salad sandwhich.
And you are 20 year old Dallas Cowboy's cheerleader with double D's and was one of the back up dancers for Limp Bizkit's video for "Rollin'"
Right?
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Chain729
CageKicker Extraordinaire
Hmmm...I dont think i agree with that last statement. People can be anybody they want to be on the internet. Because really, im a pot-bellied hill billy chest hair like a bear and smells like 2 year old egg salad sandwhich.
And you are 20 year old Dallas Cowboy's cheerleader with double D's and was one of the back up dancers for Limp Bizkit's video for "Rollin'"
Right?
If you can't spot those one's a mile away... :shrug:
You trade one set of problems for another one, but IMO, it's not a big deal, just a personal preference.
Beta84
They're out to get us
Hmmm...I dont think i agree with that last statement. People can be anybody they want to be on the internet. Because really, im a pot-bellied hill billy with chest hair like a bear and smells like 2 year old egg salad sandwhich.
And you are 20 year old Dallas Cowboy's cheerleader with double D's and was one of the back up dancers for Limp Bizkit's video for "Rollin'"
Right?
pretty much. do u actually have the chest hair though? maybe it's just lower down or u wax it. the rest is pretty accurate.
I don't like the online thing much. I mean i've met people online before that I've later dated, but people can have a much different persona online. They can be sweet and cute and all that stuff online, but then horrid people once you meet them. I don't mind running into someone online and saying "hey lets meet up" but most of the getting to know each other stuff really needs to be done in person. I see people on this website that are night and day different between the website and in person so I don't really feel like it's a good indication at all, even with the fancy tools that a dating website can provide.
Chain729
CageKicker Extraordinaire
pretty much. do u actually have the chest hair though? maybe it's just lower down or u wax it. the rest is pretty accurate.
I don't like the online thing much. I mean i've met people online before that I've later dated, but people can have a much different persona online. They can be sweet and cute and all that stuff online, but then horrid people once you meet them. I don't mind running into someone online and saying "hey lets meet up" but most of the getting to know each other stuff really needs to be done in person. I see people on this website that are night and day different between the website and in person so I don't really feel like it's a good indication at all, even with the fancy tools that a dating website can provide.
The sweet and then monster thing happens IRL too.
The online thing is a search and filtering tool to find a date; not a dating tool to find a mate.
GypsyQueen
I'MnotSICKbutI'MnotWELL!
Really? Because that is what most of the commercials for these kinds of site say that it is in fact to find a mate...the one...
Its all bs if you ask me. I hate relationships. soooo i guess im a little bias.
Beta84
They're out to get us
Really? Because that is what most of the commercials for these kinds of site say that it is in fact to find a mate...the one...
Its all bs if you ask me. I hate relationships. soooo i guess im a little bias.
yeah they always say they take all ur personal info and find u the perfect mate and if ur not satisfied with who they find for u then they will give u 6 months free or somethin BS like that. never used those sites but they sound like a bunch of crap to me
So U hate relationships too? You boggle my mind more and more every day
Chain729
CageKicker Extraordinaire
Really? Because that is what most of the commercials for these kinds of site say that it is in fact to find a mate...the one...
Its all bs if you ask me. I hate relationships. soooo i guess im a little bias.
Commercials are made by people who's job it is to sell a product. "Happily ever after" sells. I can't believe you tried to use a well known line of BS (commercials) as an arguing point.
Want to come over and waste a few hours?
Beta84
They're out to get us
Commercials are made by people who's job it is to sell a product. "Happily ever after" sells. I can't believe you tried to use a well known line of BS (commercials) as an arguing point.
Want to come over and waste a few hours?
K
kris31280
Guest
Really? Because that is what most of the commercials for these kinds of site say that it is in fact to find a mate...the one...
Its all bs if you ask me. I hate relationships. soooo i guess im a little bias.
aren't you in one?Commercials are made by people who's job it is to sell a product. "Happily ever after" sells. I can't believe you tried to use a well known line of BS (commercials) as an arguing point.
Want to come over and waste a few hours?
Isn't she a little too tiny for you?
GypsyQueen
I'MnotSICKbutI'MnotWELL!
yeah they always say they take all ur personal info and find u the perfect mate and if ur not satisfied with who they find for u then they will give u 6 months free or somethin BS like that. never used those sites but they sound like a bunch of crap to me
So U hate relationships too? You boggle my mind more and more every day
What can i say, im amaaaaazing!
Commercials are made by people who's job it is to sell a product. "Happily ever after" sells. I can't believe you tried to use a well known line of BS (commercials) as an arguing point.
Want to come over and waste a few hours?
you are too much.Nothing is funny. why are you laughing.
jk
Yes. i knew this was going to come up. I hate relationships. I hardly ever stay in one, let alone even start one. I care about my gf. she worked really hard for me. I love her. I hate relying on someone emotionally, fiscally, and mentally. So i dont.
Plus even if i tried to leave her, she would find me
Its hard to explain. Love is weakness. End of story. Ya know?
I am not tiny.
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs
Well-Known Member
Yes. i knew this was going to come up. I hate relationships. I hardly ever stay in one, let alone even start one. I care about my gf. she worked really hard for me. I love her. I hate relying on someone emotionally, fiscally, and mentally. So i dont.
Plus even if i tried to leave her, she would find me
Its hard to explain. Love is weakness. End of story. Ya know?
You're gay?
Didn't know that. learn something new every day
(or are you bi?)
K
kris31280
Guest
Yes. i knew this was going to come up. I hate relationships. I hardly ever stay in one, let alone even start one. I care about my gf. she worked really hard for me. I love her. I hate relying on someone emotionally, fiscally, and mentally. So i dont.
Plus even if i tried to leave her, she would find me
Its hard to explain. Love is weakness. End of story. Ya know?
I am not tiny.
I understand more fully than I think I'd be able to express
and so help me... the next skinny biatch who says she's not tiny is gonna get my foot planted firmly up her ass. You are too tiny, liar!
GypsyQueen
I'MnotSICKbutI'MnotWELL!
You're gay?
Didn't know that. learn something new every day
Actually neither, but ill keep things simple and just say that im bi.
I understand more fully than I think I'd be able to express
You are too tiny, liar!
I am normal sized. Kitty Vomit Juice is tiny.