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LateApex

LateApex

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SmowPea said:
I stopped looking years ago and haven't found one person in the area I would be interested in having a LTR with. I don't go to bars -- the last thing I want is a drunk or a one night stand. I'm a family gal and haven't met anyone in church, the library, or the grocery store either, and since I don't know anyone, I don't get invited to social functions! Oh well. :ohwell:
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See.

People think going to the bars means that you have to have a one night stand.

I've met a lot of people that are now friends by going to the local bars.

It's called networking. Meet people to meet more people.
 
4d2008

4d2008

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LateApex said:
See.

People think going to the bars means that you have to have a one night stand.

I've met a lot of people that are now friends by going to the local bars.

It's called networking. Meet people to meet more people.
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:yeahthat: thats where I know the noob from. A bar. :shrug: we didnt have a 1 night stand and she is a HOTTIE!!!!
 
morningbell

morningbell

hmmmmmm
LateApex said:
See.

People think going to the bars means that you have to have a one night stand.

I've met a lot of people that are now friends by going to the local bars.

It's called networking. Meet people to meet more people.
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WAIT A MINUTE!!!! You mean you don't????? :doh: What was I thinking?
 
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reficul_vs_dog

Guest
I hear that a bunch of cool people go to Starbucks every other Thursday or so.
There is this one...his name is the make of a car company I think...Chevy maybe? That doesn't sound right...oh well...anyway, he's a Hot-T :hot:
Maybe try him on for size...he seems genuine enough :yay:
 
GWguy

GWguy

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My one night stand consists of standing at the bar one night. When I fall down, the one night stand is over 'cause I'm not standing anymore.
 
4d2008

4d2008

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reficul_vs_dog said:
I hear that a bunch of cool people go to Starbucks every other Thursday or so.
There is this one...his name is the make of a car company I think...Chevy maybe? That doesn't sound right...oh well...anyway, he's a Hot-T :hot:
Maybe try him on for size...he seems genuine enough :yay:
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:killingme:love:(whoever you are):killingme
 
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ItalianScallion

Harley Rider
SmowPea said:
I stopped looking years ago and haven't found one person in the area I would be interested in having a LTR with. I don't go to bars -- the last thing I want is a drunk or a one night stand. I'm a family gal and haven't met anyone in church, the library, or the grocery store either, and since I don't know anyone, I don't get invited to social functions! Oh well. :ohwell:
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There is the problem! So many of you say you don't go to bars and neither do I but WHERE DO YOU GO??? If you advertised yourself in public more often maybe someone would answer the ad. PM us 2 (me & withrespect) and we can meet and chat about the lack of decent singles here.
SoMDGirl42 said:
There are no decent men here. :popcorn: Save time and energy and get yourself some good batteries and stick with BOB.
If you are looking for Mr. Right Now and not Mr. Right, I can hook you right up, just let me know :buddies:
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I just love the way we all are lumped together in that category of "no decent men". If I was truly narrow minded I could say the same for the women but it wouldn't be true.
withrespect said:
Hello all,
This is a hard question to ask without sounding somewhat desperate... but where in the hell can I meet a decent man around here. I am beginning to feel mildly discouraged because it seems like every man I meet around here is not worth catching feelings for....either they are really handsome, but cocky about it; really nice, but too feminine; "intimidated by me"; or have so much drama that I cant see them fitting me into the mess. :jerry: I just dont know where to meet someone decent, its not like you can really find anyone in a bar who is looking to meet a woman for relationship purposes. I am not trying to complain, and I am not saying that I havent met nice people, I guess I am just looking for a nice guy to spend some time with that doesnt have a baby's mama that will put a bounty out for me if I start dating her "man". :cds: help please.
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A lot of it stems from which county you're looking in. I know of a great, down to earth guy in Waldorf who has the same problem meeting "decent" gals because they are all in bars or married or divorced with kids and sitting at home. PM me here and we can talk about it more eh?
 
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Devo

West Philadelphia Raised
I'm a decent guy (or so I would think), and am single.

Moved down in July after graduating college, got a nice job, and have yet to meet a decent girl. I havent explored as much as I would like to, but Im trying my best to get out there. I feel your pain ladies. :buddies:
 
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Plan B

New Member
charities

just my take, but...
I heard that volunteering at charities and other causes is the best place to find good males.
in yr original post you mentioned 'effeminate'. often confussed for intelligence, be careful with generalizations. most girls who want allot of masculinity run a risk of abuse...
good luck
 
sockgirl77

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
ItalianScallion said:
A lot of it stems from which county you're looking in. I know of a great, down to earth guy in Waldorf who has the same problem meeting "decent" gals because they are all in bars or married or divorced with kids and sitting at home. PM me here and we can talk about it more eh?
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Are you kidding me? I grew up in Chuck County. Just about every guy I know there is a POS. Hell, it's so bad there that there's a Deadbeat Dad section in the paper.
 
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toppick08

Guest
Devo said:
I'm a decent guy (or so I would think), and am single.

Moved down in July after graduating college, got a nice job, and have yet to meet a decent girl. I havent explored as much as I would like to, but Im trying my best to get out there. I feel your pain ladies. :buddies:
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Believe me man, there are decent ones here.....keep searching...:yay:

 
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