Would you be willing to be punished
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Larry Gude
Strung Out
What...
...exacrtly do you have in mind?
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
:shrug:
...exacrtly do you have in mind?
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
"I will not raise my kid to plot to murder the teacher"
:shrug:
Geek
New Member
I was thinking court/jail.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Geek
New Member
Did you really have to write stuff over and over?
They just spanked us with a paddle.
citysherry
I Need a Beer
What kind of lesson would it teach the child if the parents are punished?
MMDad
Lem Putt
It is definitely valid for a CPS investigation of the home conditions. Didn't they have real handcuffs? How does a 3rd grader get those?
I could see charges for abuse, neglect, or something similar. I don't think we need to punish parents for what the child did, but we do need to punish parents for the neglect that led to the crime.
Cowgirl
Well-Known Member
The parent has to sit in jail, and they beat the kid's ass when they get home.
I'm not advocating spanking.
Vince
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When I was done with the kid they'd probably toss me in jail anyhow.
Yeah, I'd probably be in the next cell.
Nanny Pam
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I'm not advocating spanking.
I do. Kids need to learn "cause & effect."
I would think, if you did an investigation of the homes criminal minors come from, you would find an easy "contributing to the delinquency of a minor" and "child neglect" charge to hit the parents with.
I do not think that parents should be charged with the crime their child committed, nor do I think that wayward kids are always the parents' fault. I do, however, think that something needs to be done about the lack of parental involvement that is so prevalent in our society today.
I do not think that parents should be charged with the crime their child committed, nor do I think that wayward kids are always the parents' fault. I do, however, think that something needs to be done about the lack of parental involvement that is so prevalent in our society today.
It's the parents fault that the kids turned out the way they did! If they would have busted their butts when they were bad, this wouldn't have happened. Kids today know how to get away with murder!
JMHO. :shrug:
Most kids watch too much TV. Parents are legaly responsible for what there minor children do but parents can be loving, consentant, involved wonderful parents and their children can still make bad choices or even grow up to be murders and the opisit can happen too. We as indivuals have the free will to do what we choose. We can raise our children the best way we know how, the rest is uo to them.
pixiegirl
Cleopatra Jones
I'm fairly familiar with the area that this occured in. It's been a few years since I've been down there but a good bit of the area was what you'd call "country gheto". Very poor and run down.
I believe that the parents are 99% at fault. We've been through this before and I'm sure I'll get called an upity biatch again but very few people are in these situations due to "bad luck". 90% of the time if you don't have a pot to pee in it's because you chose to or it's a result of poor choices you made. If these adults can't get thier crap together enough to provide themselves proper living conditions then how in the hell do you expect them to have determination to raise thier kids right? They won't and so the cycle continues.
I think that the children should absolutely be punished as well. As someone else said; they need to learn "cause and effect". You screw up, you pay. Teach personal responsibility early.
I believe that the parents are 99% at fault. We've been through this before and I'm sure I'll get called an upity biatch again but very few people are in these situations due to "bad luck". 90% of the time if you don't have a pot to pee in it's because you chose to or it's a result of poor choices you made. If these adults can't get thier crap together enough to provide themselves proper living conditions then how in the hell do you expect them to have determination to raise thier kids right? They won't and so the cycle continues.
I think that the children should absolutely be punished as well. As someone else said; they need to learn "cause and effect". You screw up, you pay. Teach personal responsibility early.
I completely agree with you. When parents make poor decisions with their lives, it affects the children and what they become as they grow up.
MMDad
Lem Putt
I agree with almost everything you say, except that the kids should be "punished." Kids should be disciplined. It feels the same to them, it's just the mindset of the parent that matters. If you punish, it's revenge. Discipline corrects behavior.
Kid slams the door. You spank him. If you are punishing, you spank because he slammed the door. If you are disciplining, you are teaching him not to do it again.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
You...
...sure you can handle your kids??? :ninjafight:
When I was done with the kid they'd probably toss me in jail anyhow.
...sure you can handle your kids??? :ninjafight:
Yep. A couple of them, actually.