y does this always happen to me?

Qurious

Qurious

Im On 1.
Everytime I go out, I'm seeing the boyfriend/girlfriend of an associate/friend out at the club huggin it up or kissing it up with some skank/jerk.

I'm left to take a picture of it with my celllphone and then wonder if I should show my associate/friend.

I usually do.

This time around I did and now they said they dont want to be my friend anymore.....

but im like "i'm doing you a favor, get rid of that trifling ho!"

Him: "It's none of your business, i would've rathered not know."

*sigh*
 
Mojo

Mojo

New Member
Qurious said:
Everytime I go out, I'm seeing the boyfriend/girlfriend of an associate/friend out at the club huggin it up or kissing it up with some skank/jerk.

I'm left to take a picture of it with my celllphone and then wonder if I should show my associate/friend.

I usually do.

This time around I did and now they said they dont want to be my friend anymore.....

but im like "i'm doing you a favor, get rid of that trifling ho!"

Him: "It's none of your business, i would've rathered not know."

*sigh*
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Damn girl, why you gotta be all up in errybodys biznass?
 
Q

Queenofdenile1

Love is Blind
Go dancing, do what it is you do, but your friends/associates will find out eventually. If these associates/friends/acquaintenances are nothing more then that, and not people you are very close, stay out of it and stop using that camera for those purposes.
 
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

Well-Known Member
Queenofdenile1 said:
Go dancing, do what it is you do, but your friends/associates will find out eventually. If these associates/friends/acquaintenances are nothing more then that, and not people you are very close, stay out of it and stop using that camera for those purposes.
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:eyebrow:
You wouldn't tell your friend their SO was cheating on them?
 
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

Well-Known Member
lovinmaryland said:
Would you... would you want to know if your SO was cheating on you?
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YEAHHHHH!!!! DUH. :doh:

Granted...I guess looking back, I'm glad that some people do keep their mouths shut like the other person suggestion or I may have been shot or something :killingme

Personally, after living what life I have, I couldn't NOT tell someone I saw their SO cheating on them :yay:
 
lovinmaryland

lovinmaryland

Well-Known Member
pcjohnnyb said:
YEAHHHHH!!!! DUH. :doh:

Granted...I guess looking back, I'm glad that some people do keep their mouths shut like the other person suggestion or I may have been shot or something :killingme

Personally, after living what life I have, I couldn't NOT tell someone I saw their SO cheating on them :yay:
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I am not sure I could tell someone else about that... unless they had suspicions and brought it up to me first.

I also dont think I could handle knowing that my SO was cheating on me... it would really devestate me :frown:
 
baileydog

baileydog

I wanna be a SMIB
Qurious said:
Everytime I go out, I'm seeing the boyfriend/girlfriend of an associate/friend out at the club huggin it up or kissing it up with some skank/jerk.

I'm left to take a picture of it with my celllphone and then wonder if I should show my associate/friend.

I usually do.

This time around I did and now they said they dont want to be my friend anymore.....

but im like "i'm doing you a favor, get rid of that trifling ho!"

Him: "It's none of your business, i would've rathered not know."

*sigh*
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Next time you go out and see your friends boy/girlfriend cheating, call them on the phone and invite them out to the bar with you to have a drink. The nonchalautly say, "well hey, isnt that your boy/girlfriend over there?" Someone did that to me once and I watched this married ho take off with the guy I was dating and go to his barracks room. Once I knew they were settled in for the night, I went and got her husband and told him the room # and sat back and watched. I gotta say it was better than Jerry Springer.:lmao:
 
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

Well-Known Member
lovinmaryland said:
I am not sure I could tell someone else about that... unless they had suspicions and brought it up to me first.

I also dont think I could handle knowing that my SO was cheating on me... it would really devestate me :frown:
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It would suck...but would you rather know SO was cheating, or find out the hard way because you contracted AIDS from him that "she" had? Just a thought :yay:
 
Chain729

Chain729

CageKicker Extraordinaire
lovinmaryland said:
Would you... would you want to know if your SO was cheating on you?
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Yep. I'd rather know what was going on. And in a town that ain't that big, you'll find out eventually. Personally, I'd prefer to know as soon as possible. Better to have the information and step up the CYA precautions, than not have it and pay more for it later.

I've never shot the messenger, though I have not believed friends when they had no motive to lie because I didn't like what I heard. Live and learn.

Cowgirl said:
:fixed: :lol:
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aps45819 said:
It happens to you because your friends are sluts.
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:yeahthat: Both of 'em.
 
rack'm

rack'm

Jaded
Qurious said:
Everytime I go out, I'm seeing the boyfriend/girlfriend of an associate/friend out at the club huggin it up or kissing it up with some skank/jerk.

I'm left to take a picture of it with my celllphone and then wonder if I should show my associate/friend.

I usually do.

This time around I did and now they said they dont want to be my friend anymore.....

but im like "i'm doing you a favor, get rid of that trifling ho!"

Him: "It's none of your business, i would've rathered not know."

*sigh*
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Because people are scum :coffee:
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
You know, I go out all the time to all kinds of different places, and I have never seen a friend or associate's SO sucking face with someone else. Not one time.

So, Q, maybe your friends and associates are just a bunch of cheating dirtbags.

:shrug:
 
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