I have to agree with Baja, if you cant afford a roof over your head or food on your table, then you have to give up the habits that you have. Cigarettes are 6 or 7 dollars a pack, that approx 180.00 a month. Mind you, it may not pay rent, but, it will buy groceries. She is 28 and has no identification, whats up with that. He has a non violent case pending, what was the charge? Does he have family in Oklahoma that could help him. Usually, not in all cases, but usually, if the family wont help, its because they have tried to help before and it did absolutley no good. I have to wonder why their families arent helping. Maybe thats why the children are with family and they are not.