What would you do in a case like this???

Ken King

A little rusty but not crusty
PREMO Member
E-5 tells E-6 in her own unit. She already reported it. The E-5 now has no say in the matter. The E-6 has no choice but to pass it up the chain.

The E-5 doesn't know what actually happened, so what is the E-6 to report? Hey Chief (or Skipper) this E-5 went out got drunk, banged boots with some dude and doesn't know if she consented or not.
 

MMDad

Lem Putt
The E-5 doesn't know what actually happened, so what is the E-6 to report? Hey Chief (or Skipper) this E-5 went out got drunk, banged boots with some dude and doesn't know if she consented or not.

I get a call at 0500 from a crying girl saying she got raped.

That's what she reported to the E-6, that's what the E-6 should report up the chain. If not, she can come back in the future and blame the E-6 for not doing anything. When the E-6 is questioned, they can say "but she asked me not to report it as a friend." Then they can explain why they feel that their friendship means that the rules no longer apply.

This is why they have fraternization rules - when the military lets friendship get in the way of following orders there's a problem.
 

Ken King

A little rusty but not crusty
PREMO Member
That's what she reported to the E-6, that's what the E-6 should report up the chain. If not, she can come back in the future and blame the E-6 for not doing anything. When the E-6 is questioned, they can say "but she asked me not to report it as a friend." Then they can explain why they feel that their friendship means that the rules no longer apply.

This is why they have fraternization rules - when the military lets friendship get in the way of following orders there's a problem.
As I read the OP she called and talked to her friend, not that she was reporting an incident to her superior. If the E-6 was her immediate supervisor then I think his choices would be limited in what he should or should not do, but that wasn't stated. He could report it up the chain if he desires and doing that could open a whole can of crap for the E-5 as to whether or not she is suitable for service (given her self-described alcohol abuse) or whether she should be allowed access to classified or sensitive material.
 

Merlin99

Visualize whirled peas
PREMO Member
Accessory after the fact is with the intent to help or assist the person that committed the crime to avoid punishment. Are you saying the E-6 knew who it was that allegedly committed the act (if there was an act)?
No, I'm saying that he knew that a "crime" had been committed and that by failing to report it, he was complicit with it. But at the same time I'm not saying that he's done anything wrong, but if her story were to change for any reason (pregnancy, a religious awakening, pissed off parents...), he may want to have something in writing exonerating himself.
 

Ken King

A little rusty but not crusty
PREMO Member
No, I'm saying that he knew that a "crime" had been committed and that by failing to report it, he was complicit with it. But at the same time I'm not saying that he's done anything wrong, but if her story were to change for any reason (pregnancy, a religious awakening, pissed off parents...), he may want to have something in writing exonerating himself.

How does he know a crime was committed when she doesn't know?
 

NTNG

Member
MMDad, I agree 100%. The E-6 needs to report the incident. Let the CoC decide how to proceed. if the E-5 feels betrayed, and the friendship ends, so be it.
 

mAlice

professional daydreamer
It's a sad world we live in, when you can go out and get so drunk that you don't know you're name, make poor decisions, and become the victim.
 
It's a sad world we live in, when you can go out and get so drunk that you don't know you're name, make poor decisions, and become the victim.
I agree. If we let women who get to drunk to remember if they consented to banging off the hook does that mean we let drivers who are too drunk to remember if they got behind the wheel off the hook? Do we let parents who are too drunk to remember to take care of the baby off the hook? Do we let drunks that are too drunk to remember if they really beat the crap out of their S/O off the hook?
 

MMDad

Lem Putt
As I read the OP she called and talked to her friend, not that she was reporting an incident to her superior. If the E-6 was her immediate supervisor then I think his choices would be limited in what he should or should not do, but that wasn't stated. He could report it up the chain if he desires and doing that could open a whole can of crap for the E-5 as to whether or not she is suitable for service (given her self-described alcohol abuse) or whether she should be allowed access to classified or sensitive material.

I know I'm obligated to report it, but at the same time it turned into a pretty large argument between us when I said I was going to. Of course she pulled the friend card and told me not to.

The E-6 knows they are supposed to report it. There is no doubt to them. The ONLY reason they are not reporting it is the "friend card."

The E-6 is not the fact finder. It doesn't matter what they think the repercussions might be. They should be an E-6 first and a friend second.

They said that the unit was only 10 people. An E-6 may not be the direct supervisor to the E-5, but in a unit that small there should definitely be no doubt who is senior. They have let friendship get in the way of the order that is a critical part of a military unit.
 
The E-6 knows they are supposed to report it. There is no doubt to them. The ONLY reason they are not reporting it is the "friend card."

The E-6 is not the fact finder. It doesn't matter what they think the repercussions might be. They should be an E-6 first and a friend second.

They said that the unit was only 10 people. An E-6 may not be the direct supervisor to the E-5, but in a unit that small there should definitely be no doubt who is senior. They have let friendship get in the way of the order that is a critical part of a military unit.
Your point regarding what is expected by way of reporting in the military is valid. In fact over the weekend I read an article where the commander who repeatedly commited sexual harrassment blamed his chiefs for not reporting him and letting it continue.
 

Ken King

A little rusty but not crusty
PREMO Member
The E-6 knows they are supposed to report it. There is no doubt to them. The ONLY reason they are not reporting it is the "friend card."

The E-6 is not the fact finder. It doesn't matter what they think the repercussions might be. They should be an E-6 first and a friend second.

They said that the unit was only 10 people. An E-6 may not be the direct supervisor to the E-5, but in a unit that small there should definitely be no doubt who is senior. They have let friendship get in the way of the order that is a critical part of a military unit.

Fine, report it then and destroy both their friendship and possibly her career.
 

MMDad

Lem Putt
Fine, report it then and destroy both their friendship and possibly her career.

Should friendship be a factor in deciding to follow orders? If her behavior destroys her career, why is the person reporting it the one who is ruining her career? Isn't that like blaming the cop for the DUI?

We are constantly being reminded that we have an obligation to report adverse information. Imagine when the E-5 becomes the next leaker and the E-6 gets to explain why they didn't report what they knew.
 

MMDad

Lem Putt
Apparently not, as he told Monello and not his CO.

So when they said that they "know" it means they didn't really know? Read what is written, not what you think it means. They "know" it's rape. They "know" what their responsibility is. Not following through on what you "know" you are supposed to do does not mean that they don't know.
 

mAlice

professional daydreamer
I'm curious, and I'm sure this is an unknown, as there were only 2 people present when the 'incident' occurred. What's the chance that the guy was as drunk as the girl? Then, who's the victim?
 

MMDad

Lem Putt
I'm curious, and I'm sure this is an unknown, as there were only 2 people present when the 'incident' occurred. What's the chance that the guy was as drunk as the girl? Then, who's the victim?

Agree 100%. Based on what was written, any blame goes both ways. I do not believe that the E-5 is a victim. But that in no way changes the fact that the E-6 knows what they are suppposed to do and they are not doing it.
 

GURPS

INGSOC
PREMO Member
I'm curious, and I'm sure this is an unknown, as there were only 2 people present when the 'incident' occurred. What's the chance that the guy was as drunk as the girl? Then, who's the victim?



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nutz

Well-Known Member
I've been retired for a while. I'm sure the rules for rape/sexual abuse reporting have been given in annual training. I got this off of a military board. I don't know any of the people involved in this. I find this an interesting dilemma. So what would you do? Please state branch of service and LOS.

USAF 22.5 years

The E-6 is in a no-win situation and, most probably, doesn't know it. As a soldier (SHARP is an army acronym), he is accountable for his actions on and off duty. She relayed to him that she is the victim of a crime. He is obligated to report any and all crimes that he is aware of. If later on anything (std, pregnancy, etc.) comes of this incident and she relays his involvement, he will face punishment. Under Army reg. 600-20, he could report the incident to his chain or to the "victims advocacy" office. Since he probably has no clue who that is, he could drop back and punt. Call the chaplain and enlist their help. He has technically reported it and the chaplain's service is well versed on the rights and wrongs of these type of situations.

"Every Soldier who is aware of a sexual assault should immediately (within 24 hours) report incidents. Sexual assault is incompatible with Army values and is punishable under the UCMJand other Federal and local civilian laws" http://www.apd.army.mil/pdffiles/r600_20.pdf
 
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nutz

Well-Known Member
Fine, report it then and destroy both their friendship and possibly her career.

Maybe, maybe not. "Most" people in this situation would have 0 clue what to do, especially not the E-6. She has faced a traumatic event and most likely is not thinking the event through but is focusing on the guilt of being blamed or being labeled a "slut".
 
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