never got so sick of meal bars and shakes like I did
Menopause hit me like a truck... now that I am feeling so much better the past month or so...
I've been doing some form of aerobic/cardio exercise my whole adult life. Dancercise, Jazzercise, etc. I didn't regularly work out after I had kids in my 30's, but I had kids and they kept me active! In 1999, I discovered that I was HYPOthyroid, and was put on synthroid. I had gained about 20lbs more than normal for me, over time. I started doing low-carb. I also quit smoking in July 2000 and to counteract all the repercussions of doing THAT, I started exercising *regularly*. I rode a bicycle 7 miles a day nearly every day after the kids were on the bus. I also started taking another Jazzercise class a couple of times a week. When I moved here in 2005, I was quite fit and trim. Did my own thing of low carbing druing the week and eating whatever else I wanted on the weekends. My weight didn't fluctuate that much. I rarely ate out because I was a single mom with the 2 boys and no "RL" social life except for school events and activities.
Then when I met more peeps and then started dating, I started going out more (hello, FridayNighters!! :waving and eating out more & even "taking out" more. The weight crept up and of course, menopause. I was STILL WORKING OUT 3-5 days a week! Cardio Spin Classes 3X and a cardio weight class 2X. Couldn't EVER lose more than 5 lbs. But I wanted to lose more .
I was doing the same low carb during the week and what I wanted on the weekends, and using bars, shakes - nothing made a difference. THEN, last March, I decided to quit all the FAKE foods, and started eating everything. I didn't eliminate any food groups. I ate balanced, PORTION controlled meals every day. 3 X a day and 2 snacks. I kept it to about 1200 calories. According to the doctor at my physical in February, I lost 20 lbs! I was only trying to lose "that last 10". But I have also kept it off all the way from last year.
However, I do eat a lot of grilled chicken and salads for my every day lunch and dinners. On the weekends, I eat other things and just try to eat more fruit and veggies. I also drink a gallon of water every day. MORE when I take Spin class 3X a week.
For me - it was portion control and REAL food. As near to the original form that you can get. The body processess real food the right way.
I do still eat the goodies. I just keep them on the FEWER side. I save my calories for the realllly good things. Like margaritas on the weekend.
This is just my experience - as usual - YMMV.