Replace...
I voted "No". I feel every possible victim of every crime, as well as their families, have a right to privacy as well as time to heal, without having reporters hounding them and their neighbors and co-workers poking around in their business making assumptions about the kind of person he/she is.
..."every possible victim" with "every possible" perpetrator.
If that is logical and fair, then isn't Kobe entitled to the same sort of annonymity UNTIL he is proven guilty???
If you don't feel violated enough to stand up and shout out to anyone and everyone that "That SOB right there RAPED ME and I want him to never be able to do that to anyone ever again!!!"
then go away. I don't want to have my judicial system used to support people who are ambivalent about what may or may not have happened to them when we are talking about a violent crime.
Rape is one of the more vulgar crimes a man can commit and as a man I want his balls cut off and shoved up his ###. Because I feel so strongly I also want her to suffer criminal sanction for false allegations. This is serious to me.
If Kobe did what is alleged, then rot in hell. And she should be proud to be the one to see him fry, if not for herself then for a victim she saved.
If she is making this up then, may she rot in hell.
If it is somewhere in between, rough consensual sex, some jilting or scorn, well, we got us a problem and how the hell is it fair for him to be publicly called a rapist by someone who will not even stand up for the charges?
I would want my daughters to raise Holy Hell and you can be sure I want their attacker on a slab.
This case stinks and right now, the focus is on this girls feelings while Kobe twists in the wind.
I didn't see a rapist in that news conferance. I saw a man who was ashamed for betraying his wife. I saw a man who was not looking forward to being alone with her for awhile.
Am I crazy?