All this love stuff

[kris31280]

I'll have to watch the movie in its entirety because I've only seen bits and pieces.

Poor Meatloaf.

WHAT?!?!?! I own like... 3 copies of it... the first one I ever taped off TV (Fox did it with a stage show back in 1992/1993), the first version I get got on VHS, the Special Edition I got on VHS (which featured Superheroes on it), and then finally the 25th Anniversary Edition DVD I bought, which has lots of fun stuff.

 

[BuddyLee]

WHAT?!?!?! I own like... 3 copies of it... the first one I ever taped off TV (Fox did it with a stage show back in 1992/1993), the first version I get got on VHS, the Special Edition I got on VHS (which featured Superheroes on it), and then finally the 25th Anniversary Edition DVD I bought, which has lots of fun stuff.

It's one of those that I've been meaning to see. I'm actually pretty film savvy.

They still show the film on occasion, especially in California.

 

[JULZ]

I love ice cream...

I love chocolate...

 

[kris31280]

It's one of those that I've been meaning to see. I'm actually pretty film savvy.

They still show the film on occasion, especially in California.

It's more fun to see it in a theater with all the props... most major cities have at least one troupe that does it.

Minneapolis had Transvestite Soup that did it once a month at a theater.

 

[daisycreek]

I'll have to watch the movie in its entirety because I've only seen bits and pieces.

Don't feel bad BL, when I tell people that I have never seen "Star Wars" they look at me like I am the alien!

 

[BuddyLee]

Don't feel bad BL, when I tell people that I have never seen "Star Wars" they look at me like I am the alien!

I haven't either...in its entirety.

 

[mudd]

All the above posts suck...
Love is when you can pee or poop while he's shaving

 

[kris31280]

All the above posts suck...
Love is when you can pee or poop while he's shaving

That's comfort... which is a part of love but isn't necessarily all love is.

That being said... I'll never be able to poop while someone else is shaving

 

[Larry Gude]

Is that...

I'm not really sure that love exsists the way we need.
I don't believe that two people can ever be exactly on the same page at the same time. do you?

...the goal, to be on the same page, all the time? What if on that page there is 'alone' or 'me' time? Even then, if both parties are 'on the same page' as regards having some time to yourself, how can that ever be coordinated so that both people want the same thing at the same time?

You're expressing some exact, precise things here. On the one hand you're not sure love exists the 'way we need'; what does that mean? Then you saying you don't believe people can be on the EXACT same page ALL of the time.

So, are you saying we NEED to be on the exact same page ALL the time to be loved the way we NEED, but you don't see it as possible?

Consider yourself under cross examination.

 

[Larry Gude]

Then...

Love is overrated. Even when it's there, it's no guarantee that things will work out. "Love" is a connection, a bond, that starts with and is maintained by choice. Anything beyond that is called a fairy tale, no one stays infatuated forever.

BTW, if you have the time sit and worry about the capacity to live a fairy tale, you have too much free time.

...I would suggest you may never have actually been in love.

Love has nothing to with choice or fairy tales and it sure as hell ain't an infatuation.

Love is pure, undiluted feeling.

 

[Chain729]

...I would suggest you may never have actually been in love.

Love has nothing to with choice or fairy tales and it sure as hell ain't an infatuation.

Love is pure, undiluted feeling.

If love had nothing to do with choice, it would never die and we'd all live happily ever after. Anything and everything involving the mind and heart starts with choice. It happens because we allow it to. It can be started, stopped, changed... however we will it to be.

We choose to give in to the feelings. We choose to open our hearts, or not, to let those feelings come in to begin with. Just like we choose to shut people out.

Feeling is undoubtedly controllable. If it wasn't, than "I did that because I was mad and couldn't help it," would be an acceptable excuse. If feeling wasn't controllable we wouldn't cheer people up, tell our kids to stop pouting, develop "thick skin," or any number of other ways that we learn to control "feelings."

The rest of your post, I have no idea where you got the impression that I thought love had anything to do with infatuation or fairy tales.

 

[Larry Gude]

Isn't that...

If love had nothing to do with choice, it would never die and we'd all live happily ever after. Anything and everything involving the mind and heart starts with choice. It happens because we allow it to. It can be started, stopped, changed... however we will it to be.

We choose to give in to the feelings. We choose to open our hearts, or not, to let those feelings come in to begin with. Just like we choose to shut people out.

Feeling is undoubtedly controllable. If it wasn't, than "I did that because I was mad and couldn't help it," would be an acceptable excuse. If feeling wasn't controllable we wouldn't cheer people up, tell our kids to stop pouting, develop "thick skin," or any number of other ways that we learn to control "feelings."

The rest of your post, I have no idea where you got the impression that I thought love had anything to do with infatuation or fairy tales.

... contradictory?

As far as having no idea, just read the, your, referenced post;

Love is overrated. Even when it's there, it's no guarantee that things will work out. "Love" is a connection, a bond, that starts with and is maintained by choice. Anything beyond that is called a fairy tale, no one stays infatuated forever.

What are you saying there? Perhaps I am misunderstanding?

 

[Chain729]

... contradictory?

No. Feeling is controllable, it's a choice. Love begins and continues with choice. How is that possibly contradictory?

As far as having no idea, just read the, your, referenced post;



What are you saying there? Perhaps I am misunderstanding?

The definition of a fairy tale, is an imaginitive story that gives you warm fuzzies, but ain't gonna happen. So, if you believe "love" includes continuous infatuation until your pulse stops, you're on some good drugs.

 

[Larry Gude]

*lol*...

No. Feeling is controllable, it's a choice. Love begins and continues with choice. How is that possibly contradictory?



The definition of a fairy tale, is an imaginitive story that gives you warm fuzzies, but ain't gonna happen. So, if you believe "love" includes continuous infatuation until your pulse stops, you're on some good drugs.

...OK. We're gonna get no where with this. Feelings, to me, are completely uncontrollable. That's why we call them feelings. It's how one feels. How you act on those feelings is controllable. One can control reactions to feelings. However, if you actually believe you control how you feel, then it is not contradictory.

I already said, specifically, that love and infatuation are not the same thing. Your reading skills are starting to make me wonder what you are on.

 

[Chain729]

...OK. We're gonna get no where with this. Feelings, to me, are completely uncontrollable. That's why we call them feelings. It's how one feels. How you act on those feelings is controllable. One can control reactions to feelings. However, if you actually believe you control how you feel, then it is not contradictory.

I already said, specifically, that love and infatuation are not the same thing. Your reading skills are starting to make me wonder what you are on.

It's called self-awareness and free will.

You're the one on drugs dude. I said in my first post that infuation isn't love. Then you re-stated it, saying you were correcting me. I asked where the hell that came from. You said you must've misunderstood and asked what I meant. So, by me restating it to clarify my original post as YOU ASKED, my reading skills are in question? WTF?

 

[Larry Gude]

No...

It's called self-awareness and free will.

You're the one on drugs dude. I said in my first post that infuation isn't love. Then you re-stated it, saying you were correcting me. I asked where the hell that came from. You said you must've misunderstood and asked what I meant. So, by me restating it to clarify my original post as YOU ASKED, my reading skills are in question? WTF?

...YOU'RE on drugs.

This is what you wrote;

Love is overrated. Even when it's there, it's no guarantee that things will work out. "Love" is a connection, a bond, that starts with and is maintained by choice. Anything beyond that is called a fairy tale, no one stays infatuated forever.

That says that love is over rated and that it starts and is maintained by choice, yes? And anything that is not choice, anything beyond that, is a fairy tale and an infatuation, right?

Those are your words. You tell me what they mean.

 

[BuddyLee]

Controllable feelings...

...maybe in meditation.

 

[Lugnut]

All the above posts suck...
Love is when you can pee or poop while he's shaving

Ah boot camp, twas the season of love...



Hell for that matter, the barracks we had in florida didn't even have stall WALLS! Just a line of ####ters sitting 3 feet from each other and a cinder block half wall seperating the last ####ter from the shower heads!

Bunch of homos running around up in that joint!!!!

 

[mudd]

Ah boot camp, twas the season of love...



Hell for that matter, the barracks we had in florida didn't even have stall WALLS! Just a line of ####ters sitting 3 feet from each other and a cinder block half wall seperating the last ####ter from the shower heads!

Bunch of homos running around up in that joint!!!!

:meatgazers:

 

[kris31280]

Ah boot camp, twas the season of love...



Hell for that matter, the barracks we had in florida didn't even have stall WALLS! Just a line of ####ters sitting 3 feet from each other and a cinder block half wall seperating the last ####ter from the shower heads!

Bunch of homos running around up in that joint!!!!

that explains EVERYTHING!