Woman's sister's fiancee (he's 23) confided in her that he had been a hard drug user and male prostitute in his *checks notes* um, youth. Woman red flagged this and told her family about it. Now the sister is not speaking to her, and she's thinking she should have kept that information to herself.
What say you?
The Redditards say she's TA and shouldn't be so judgemental (!).
I get that people can overcome their past, but when it's being kept a deep dark shady secret it's hard to give them the benefit of the doubt. What's always better is to get it out in the open, be honest, and let the chips fall where they may. Because if you lie, not only are you a druggie and hooker, you're a liar as well and that makes people wonder what else you're lying about.
Sister is being a dumbass to marry this guy. At least give him some time to prove he's really changed and is getting his chit together. If it was my sister and my family I'd have definitely told.