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GWguy

GWguy

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Nothing wrong with being single. Take it from someone who has been since 2000. A little tough at first, but when you realize how much nicer it is to come and go as you please, no one to yell at or be yelled at, etc, etc, etc...

Sure, there are times when a companion would be nice, but the lack of a leg shackle far outweighs that.
 
withrespect

withrespect

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GWguy said:
Nothing wrong with being single. Take it from someone who has been since 2000. A little tough at first, but when you realize how much nicer it is to come and go as you please, no one to yell at or be yelled at, etc, etc, etc...

Sure, there are times when a companion would be nice, but the lack of a leg shackle far outweighs that.
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:huggy: Thanks, darlin.
 
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dems4me

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GWguy said:
Nothing wrong with being single. Take it from someone who has been since 2000. A little tough at first, but when you realize how much nicer it is to come and go as you please, no one to yell at or be yelled at, etc, etc, etc...

Sure, there are times when a companion would be nice, but the lack of a leg shackle far outweighs that.
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:yeahthat:
 
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ItalianScallion

Harley Rider
withrespect said:
Thank you for the advice :huggy:
I have already been on 2 dates since the break-up and I think that I am just in no mood to get to know anyone romantically right now. When I told one of the guys that, they told me I was a "black widow"... :eyebrow: WTH does that even mean? The last boyfriend (as mentioned in the original paragraph)affected me for some reason.:cds: so I am just going to stop dating for a while and do my own thing... before I get called something else in reference to a spider that bites off her mate's head.:coffee:
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Black widows kill their male counterparts after mating with them. Ya just can't please some women I guess....
At 23 wth are you so insecure? There's plenty of boys out there for you at that age. I wouldn't advise going out with them unless you want to be their mommy, however. Just go out with some friends and have fun.
I'm actually going to meet a friend tonight at CIP. This is one of the few Friday nights I've had to myself in @ 15 years and I'm going to enjoy it. Come by and say hi and don't sweat the dating stuff...it will take care of itself. :howdy:
PS - come in with a paper sign saying "ItalianScallion" so I'll know it's you :lmao:
JULZ said:
Why does one automatically assume that something has to be wrong? I mean maybe this 38 year old just hasn't found the right one...
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You gotta know Bob to understand this...
And thank you; Not all of us make the marriage mistake by 38.
withrespect said:
:/ I suppose.
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Cheer up lady. Emotional scars heal very fast when you let other people and things fill the void. Pick yourself up and go hang out with friends. Moping will only make it worse. :flowers:
 
smdavis65

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GWguy said:
Nothing wrong with being single. Take it from someone who has been since 2000. A little tough at first, but when you realize how much nicer it is to come and go as you please, no one to yell at or be yelled at, etc, etc, etc...

Sure, there are times when a companion would be nice, but the lack of a leg shackle far outweighs that.
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:yeahthat:

That's what I was trying to say. GWguy just said it more eloquently.
 
daisycreek

daisycreek

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GWguy said:
Nothing wrong with being single. Take it from someone who has been since 2000. A little tough at first, but when you realize how much nicer it is to come and go as you please, no one to yell at or be yelled at, etc, etc, etc...

Sure, there are times when a companion would be nice, but the lack of a leg shackle far outweighs that.
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that's where the multiple friends come into play, :lmao:

1 friend who likes hiking

1 friend who likes trying out different resturants

1 friend with benefits

etc.
 
daisycreek

daisycreek

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Just go out and enjoy life, find people who enjoy doing the things you like to do and meet up to go walking, biking, etc. don't look at it as a date. Join hobby groups walking, running etc.

you never know what could develop... and if it doesn't ... at least you were out doing something you enjoy!
 
BS Gal

BS Gal

Voted Nicest in 08
ItalianScallion said:
See! You should have gone out with me when I axed you to, woman! :lmao:
Seriously, I've found the same thing although I didn't put up with it for 4 years as you did. Wayyy too long a time IMHO.
Most of the people I meet down here disappoint me. Their lives are soo complicated and require soo much maintenance and so they are jaded because of it. Why let it get to that point?
Sure, I'll keep looking & going out but I have few expectations anymore.
My advice 2 u: Don't keep your guard up, just don't go completely under.
I let myself get in fairly deep sometimes but I always keep one eye above water (so to speak). I always leave myself a way out.
I kinda believe that there are a few good "possibilities" out there still but they're not where most people can find them today. :buddies:
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If you only have one eye, that could present a dating problem. I'm just saying. :shrug:
 
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