Another visitation ?

[Stang Girl]

Originally posted by crabcake
If you feel really strongly about letting the child see Momma, have momma arrange for the court-supervised visit, in accordance with the order.

 

[Jskijunky]

Originally posted by IM4Change
A good babysitter huh?

You know what? If you want to send your daughter off to the movies with her crackhead mother, who has no fixed address, go ahead. :shrug: Just do the tax payers a favor and don't bother them with anymore of your future .

I'm not exactly sure where this came from but I'll know better than to ask any advise from you in the future.

 

[crabcake]

Where's Allizonme? Doesn't she work for the courts or something? She may be able to provide some input here too.

 

[Vince]

Until I found out all the legal ramifications I wouldn't let her go, but even without the legalities common sense dictates not only NO she can't go, but H*LL NO!

 

[James White]

Go here and ask a them.......


http://forum.freeadvice.com/

 

[Jskijunky]

I think I left a couple things out. She visits her almost every weekend but they aren't supposed to leave my house unless I am with them. Since I see her every weekend,that is why I said that I don't think she does it anymore. I am fairly certain of this. I was just curious if anyone else had had this problem and what the actual law says. I didn't believe my lawyer and I'm not so sure I trust what the cops say either, although if he said he would arrest her, I'm sure he wasn't joking.

 

[crabcake]

Originally posted by crabcake
what are the specs of the order? Is it that mom can't come within XX # feet of you, your daughter, or both?

If you initiated the order, yet you allow mom to take your daughter anyway, in addition to her being arrested, I'd think you'd have to explain to a judge why you violated the order you requested and he/she granted. :shrug:

Bump for jski ...

 

[mainman]

Originally posted by Jskijunky
I think I left a couple things out. She visits her almost every weekend but they aren't supposed to leave my house unless I am with them. Since I see her every weekend,that is why I said that I don't think she does it anymore. I am fairly certain of this. I was just curious if anyone else had had this problem and what the actual law says. I didn't believe my lawyer and I'm not so sure I trust what the cops say either, although if he said he would arrest her, I'm sure he wasn't joking.

If there is a restraining order in place, how does she see her everyweekend with or without you present?

Is that a restraining order?

 

[Stang Girl]

Originally posted by Jskijunky
I think I left a couple things out. She visits her almost every weekend but they aren't supposed to leave my house unless I am with them. Since I see her every weekend,that is why I said that I don't think she does it anymore. I am fairly certain of this. I was just curious if anyone else had had this problem and what the actual law says. I didn't believe my lawyer and I'm not so sure I trust what the cops say either, although if he said he would arrest her, I'm sure he wasn't joking.

Ok that is all fine don't let them two out with out you because next thing you know you are waiting at the door for them and they never come back. People are crazy like that. She will take your baby and never come back. SO listen to your heart and don't let your baby go with the mom. You will never forgive your self if anything ever happen to your child. Be smart about this

 

[crabcake]

Originally posted by Stang Girl
Ok that is all fine don't let them two out with out you because next thing you know you are waiting at the door for them and they never come back. People are crazy like that. She will take your baby and never come back. SO listen to your heart and don't let your baby go with the mom. You will never forgive your self if anything ever happen to your child. Be smart about this

it pains and amazes me to say this, but

 

[James White]

MM,
I am with you here,sounds like a Visitation order and not a restraining order,or she would not be allowed around period.

 

[Jskijunky]

Originally posted by mainman
If there is a restraining order in place, how does she see her everyweekend with or without you present?

Is that a restraining order?

I apoligise, I worded it wrong. It was an ex-parta(sp). She is allowed supervised (by me) visitation.

 

[crabcake]

Originally posted by Jskijunky
I apoligise, I worded it wrong. It was an ex-parta(sp). She is allowed supervised (by me) visitation.

:dur: Then just go with them to the movie. What's the big effin' deal? :shrug:

 

[Stang Girl]

Originally posted by crabcake
it pains and amazes me to say this, but

I know I am on a roll today.

 

[crabcake]

Originally posted by Stang Girl
I know I am on a roll today.

Yes you are ... pay no mind when peeps call you a weiner for being on such a roll!

 

[Jskijunky]

Originally posted by crabcake
:dur: Then just go with them to the movie. What's the big effin' deal? :shrug:

The big effin' deal is..I don't wanna go. Thats why I'm asking. I think I got my answer so thanks.

 

[tlatchaw]

Don't wind up like a good friend of mine. His wife was an alchoholic that beat the kids. He was granted custody of one sone at the age of 3 when his second son was an infant and mom retained custody. One weekend she said she was taking the kids to visit relatives.

He went to pick up his older son on Sunday and found apartment cleaned out. She's gone and he can't get either of his sons back even though he now legally has guardianship of both.

He has an additional problem here that you don't. She's Egyptian and took the kids overseas. Hold on tight to your baby, man. Don't trust her. If you don't think your lawyer has it right, get another, but don't trust an addicted ex.

 

[mainman]

Originally posted by Jskijunky
I apoligise, I worded it wrong. It was an ex-parta(sp). She is allowed supervised (by me) visitation.

Why should she have the benefit of seeing her child if she isn't woman enough to go through treatment mandated by a judge... If that is in fact a stipulation of the ex parte order, than like Kain said above (I think she said it) than you are both breaking the order.... Check yourself dude, take care of that precious gift....

 

[crabcake]

Originally posted by Jskijunky
The big effin' deal is..I don't wanna go. Thats why I'm asking. I think I got my answer so thanks.

Great ... you don't wanna go.

What does your DAUGHTER want? Is an hour and a half too much time out of your day to supervise her while she sees her mother? I'm not saying cater to Momma's every wish. But it's about your daughter; not YOU or Momma.

 

[crabcake]

Originally posted by mainman
Why should she have the benefit of seeing her child if she isn't woman enough to go through treatment mandated by a judge... If that is in fact a stipulation of the ex parte order, than like Kain said above (I think she said it) than you are both breaking the order.... Check yourself dude, take care of that precious gift....

I'm so effin' confused here. So is she allowed supervised visitation or not? Or did that option go out the window when she didn't get treatment?

If she's still allowed supervised visitation, and he accompanies the kid, I don't see the problem, and I think it'd be selfish of him to NOT supervise for a whopping 2 hours. :shrug:

Letting 'kid' go alone with Momma is a though.